Am I a stalker? Help!!?

[Ellie Kitch]

Ok I feel soo creepy and weird just asking this.

So my ex and I were really really close. We were together for 2 years, were best friends, and told eachother everything. We were always together. Over the summer he went away and we stayed really close but then he stopped talking to me out of nowhere. He started dating this new girl about a month ago and completely moved on.

I think about him almost every day and I miss him. When I'm bored on facebook I find myself checking his wall or looking at his pictures and sometimes I look at his new gfs too! I still look at his instagram and even started looking at hers and her friends sometimes. I constantly do things hope he'll notice me like posting a new picture or coming online on chat. Worst of all, I've even taken detours through his neighborhood hoping to run into him.

What's wrong with me? I've had a breakup before but usually more on my terms. This was so sudden. I used to know every detail of his life and he knew mine and suddenly I'm completely shut out and I don't know what to do.

I'm starting to feel like I'm completely crazy! Am I a stalker?

[jollyhanna]

No its just your way of getting over him

[Noah]

Sort of, but not really. Honestly you should hide him on Facebook and try to get a date.

[Jessie]

This could be considered stalking if you see it this way, however its sounds like you are reminiscing about fond memories dew to something like: what you have done or what you've seen or experienced for such along time, that you cannot forget or let go off. From what you have said, it has given me the sense of possessiveness / belonging or can been seen as attention which is not a bad thing in your case and the gf's pictures is either jelousy or curiosity or both depends on how you see it. Hope ive been some sort of help

[Daniel]

Your Probably Still In Love With Him Thats All Its Completely Normal yes you may be Doing it a Little Bit But There is No Way He Can Find Out Tho