Would it be weird or awkward to message a guy on Facebook?

[Stefanie]

So there's this guy that I've always thought was really good looking, and he went to a high school near mine. We became Facebook friends a while ago, but recently he has come to where I work to get food, (he actually came today again), and I have considered messaging him. I'm scared that like he will thinks I'm weird or something, haha but I also don't want to skip out on the opportunity because I'm afraid. I have never had an actually conversation with him. I also don't even know if he knows my name. I'm just scared! Would it be weird? And what should I say?!

[pureevil]

You shouldn't be scared. thats a definite no no. Guys aren't monsters or lions that will eat you up. They're human. just like you. i know this sounds cheesy, and i know you probably know this deep inside. there is no point in being scared or shy. BOLDNESS will get you what you want. I think you should wait to see if he comes by tomorrow. Then, randomly start a conversation IN PERSON about anything random. anything at all! you don't have to be "Subtle" or anything. its okay for him to get the picture that you want to talk to him. If that happens then continue the convo on Facebook later that day, or even start a new conversation. If he doesn't come tomorrow then randomly start a conversation tomorrow night on Facebook. if he accepted your request, hell know who you are. don't be scared to make it obvious you're talking to him just cause you feel like it. guys like that. i suggest waiting till tomorrow just in case you can get a better opportunity to start talking in person. otherwise I'm all for Fb conversations. TIp that you probably already know: don't be tooo clingy and don't type way too much in one go. try one sentence at a time and give him lots of time to answer you. GOOD LUCK hey and if you fail, its okay! at least you tried, and maybe you'll learn a couple of things to change when you try again next time, with someone else.