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Zee15 · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

He likes her. No denying it. If you have been dating her for a few months or more than it's okay to have a talk with him. Out of all my great guy friends, not a single one tells me he loves me. Not even the one I grew up with.

Iegloy · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

relax theyre just friends, i say that to a lot of my guy friends.

trixiepuff36 · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

friend love. dont sweat it

roundmen510 · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

they are just friends dont worry about it

This Is Tiffy · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

before i got married i had a few guy friends that sound like this guy. my husband, who didn't in anyway try to stop our friendship, told me from the beginning "yea....they're half in love with you". of course i told him he was wrong and we were just friends and omg, how could he even think that. but within a couple of years i found out he was right.

that's not to say that this is the case with dude, but it does say something that HE, as a guy, wouldn't understand the line stepping that's involved in telling another guy's lady that he loves her. how old are you guys? i mean, i'm 29 and so its basically inexcusable at this point, but if you guys are younger maybe he just not at that level of manhood yet.

it's a touchy subject because if you harp to your lady about it then you run the risk of her feeling like you don't trust her and that you are trying to tell her who to be friends with and that you don't even care how long she and so&so have been friends....(all things i said to my man lol) but at the same time she might not even see these things.

i guess when it comes down to, you know both this cat and your girl better than anyone else. use your judgement. is he the type that you can kinda mention this too and maybe he'll get the hint. tell your girl how you feel but instead of throwing anger at him, make sure you let her know that it feels disrespectful to you. good luck!

AVWgirl · 09-30-2012, 05:56 PM

Good lord its nothing but love he could be in love with her but if shes in love with you i dont think you can b in love with two ppl at once a lotta chickies love my man he dont love them back the attention he gets gives me reassurance cause he dont act on it i realize im a flirt as he is but im by him one hundred percent stand by them.