Girlfriend does not let me check her facebook and threatens me.?

[Roodypoo Slayer]

My girlfriend for going on 3 years now. Is starting to get sick of me. We known each other for about 6 years prior to our relationship. And back then I was a little over protective and mentally abusive. It's not that I don't trust her. But I feel we should not keep secrets everything should be open towards us. I'm OK with her having privacy I am nothing like how I used to be. But I checked her Facebook recently and saw a "friend" flirting with her. Saying you can be wild anytime you want (; I took it in my own hands to act like her to see what I can shovel but came up with nothing. But she knew I acted like her and knew I found out. She was genuinely pissed. I am trying to fix our relationship make her want to be with me still. Not screw it up. But I need to check ever since then. Now I know something that I am unable to tell her about due to the fact I don't want to loose her Because If I tell her what I found out I will be gone. Today I logged in to her Facebook. What I saw. Was him saying how he feels teased. She said why? He said I thought we agreed to take pictures (; She said it's night plus -my name- won't take pictures of me spreading my legs. This killed me. She told me that she does not flirt with him And that he stopped. She was trying to learn how to do the splits. I tried asking what they were talking about so maybe she would tell me. But she ignored that, she said something completely different from what I read. She then deleted the messages thinking I did not know and said she I just randomly texted him just now. (No you didn't!) This guy does not live near us. But the fact that I can't say anything kills me. She uses how I was over protective as her defense . I am trapped

[dew]

I'm over protective to and me and my ex-gf broke-up because I always invade her privacy too much.
All I can say is that give her space and observe, don't let your emotions control you. You need to be calm and think of what going to do next.