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girls any suggestions?
02-18-2014, 12:16 AM
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girls any suggestions?
There's this girl that goes to my school and I like her so I added her on facebook but we have never talked to each other and I don't think she knows who I am so should I talk to her on facebook or would she find that a bit creepy and also what should I say because I'm pretty shy and don't really know what to say most of the time

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02-18-2014, 12:28 AM
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So you could say hiSmile some girls think a shy boy is cute... Would start by talking to her at school... Talking about school or the weather are always safe topics - but people love to talk about themselves too so make sure to ask if she likes this semester of school, what she thinks of this epic weather, what he favorite subject is etc. good luck! Hope that was somewhat helpful

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02-18-2014, 12:38 AM
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Girls like shy guys, start Liking her posts, comment on them and see if she responds.
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02-18-2014, 12:51 AM
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Talk to her!
Remember this, if the girl is interested in you, she will reply and try to talk to you.

Anyway, try show that you are interested in her in a sweet way at first.
I mean, don't show that you want to bang her.
Sexual attraction is totally fine with girls but some guys seem to only care about the sex more then the heart.
So show her that you care and respect her too.
Be warm, kind and sincere.

And since she is your friend on Facebook, make your wall interesting.
Like you can like some page on Facebook (about anything from jokes to scientific knowledge) and share them on your wall.
Don't keep it empty.

And talking in Facebook is nice but if you really want to get a chance with her, you'll have to take to her in person too.
So make sure you talk with her when you see her at school.

In the beginning, it may be hard to get into a long conversation with her.
So start by baby steps.

Like.....
Let's say, you are walking and you see her. If you get a chance to be alone with her, then try to get into a small talk with her.
Small talk is easy. All you have to do is great, ask how the person is, then depending on the environment ask a question on a basis of that and following the subject ask a few questions about it.
Like say hi, ask her how she is doing, and then ask her which class she is having next. Then ask a few questions about the class. Like who's the teacher and what was the last lesson he taught.
She may also ask a few questions to you too. So make sure you are being a good listener and answer her questions sincerely.

If, however, due to some reason you can't approach and talk to her, like for example maybe she is busy talking with another friend, then simply just wave your hand and say hi to her then walk away.

No matter what, everytime you meet her, show her that you acknowledge her presence by saying hi to her.
So make you sure you at least say hi to her.

On Facebook, first say hi or hi, how are you?
If she replies, ask her how her day went.
See if she is asking the same questions to you too. It's a good sign if she does. It doesn't means that she likes you but it means you are someone she is interested in talking to.

Ask her a few questions about her.
Like ask her who is her favourite band or singer. Who is her favourite actor, what's her favourite colour and food e.t.c..

If she asks the same to you, you know what it means.

Though don't bombard her with questions within just one day.
Ask a couple of such questions per day to her.

And try to hang out with her too. If she or a mutual friend of you both ask you to hang out, go with them.
If you are shy to go out with her alone, then get into a group hangout. Like make a plan with your friends about going to a movie or to go and eat somewhere. You don't have to pay for it if you can't.
Tell them that you don't have that much money so you'll like it to have them bring some money for themselves.

On that note, if you don't have a lot of friends, make some soon!

And don't lie to show off.
It's not cool.
I know some guys do this but if she ever finds out you lied to her, she may lose her trust and maybe even your respect too depending on what lie you told her.
So don't lie to impress her.

Relationships are about returning back you have given.
So you should give a little interest and a little attention of yours to her.
But if she doesn't seems interested in you and hardly pays attention to you, then you should forget about her.
She probably doesn't likes you, so don't waste your time on getting her attention.
Move on. There are other girls too.

That's all I can pretty much say to you.
Hope it was helpful in some ways.
Take care.
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