Does My "Friend" Have Some Kind of Weird Mental Disorder?

[Calvin]

This kid is probably the weirdest kid I know.

Whenever I'm around him, he always seems fake. He is always super self-conscious. Whenever I'm with him, I always notice people giving him weird looks because he is so awkward. Whenever I talk to people, especially girls, he always starts acting really glum afterwards. He starts pretending to be happy, and starts going on and on about how certain cheerleaders have been hitting on him, or how he's been chatting up so many girls etc...He once even lied to me about one of his girlfriends being fifteen when she was really thirteen. He was almost sixteen at the time...weird

He was also really awkward with me at first, but I really wanted to be nice to him. Once he realized I wanted to be friends with him, he became really clingy. He would ask me if I wanted to hang out with him every single day. Some days, I would be unable to because of other obligations. Whenever this happened he would act really offended, as if I was doing something wrong.

He also has no consideration of other people's schedules what so ever. He sometimes texts or calls me at 11:30 at night or as late as 2:00 in the morning. I always tell him that I don't pick up calls after nine o' clock. Sometimes, he would say that he would be at a certain place and never show up. Whenever I asked him why, he would usually shrug it off. If I tried to explain why I'm frustrated, he always finds something wrong that I did and tried throwing it back in my face to make me feel bad.

Lastly, he completely disregards alot of social norms. For example sometimes, when we are walking around he would shout about how he loves PEN15 and then start laughing and trying to get me to join in. He also cat calls alot of girls. Sometimes on facebook, he goes around abusing girls. He would call them s luts, and talk about how they are fat and should kill themselves. When I told him what I thought about this, he started trying to convince me that they didn't deserve to live.

What a freak! So after reading all that, do you guys know if he has some kind of mental disorder?

We're both juniors in high school.

[Anna]

It's either a complex or a series of complexes (which is very, very likely, in my opinion), or it's some form of autism (for the disregard of norms), or... I'm going to let you read this article. http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/20...-disorder/

I know someone who is loud and disregards social norms and generally offends people by being mean, as you described your friend, or by being obnoxious. I know she has ADD and depression. Maybe that is what your friend is suffering from.