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Please! Help! I am sooo embarrassed!!!?
02-18-2014, 01:30 PM
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Please! Help! I am sooo embarrassed!!!?
Okay so, on Friday night this guy named Steven asked me out (We've known each other a long time). And on Saturday he started texting me…like CRAZY things like. "Omg. I didn't know u were THAT sexy. Send me a pic." And I just thought "what? because that was the second day we were going out. He was going on and on and I would text saying like "I'm sorry but I'm not ready to do anything like that yet." He then put a crying emoji. I just rolled my eyes and thought "If it'll stop bugging him. I will." So I started texting him stuff like we were dating for the longest time. We went out on our date on Sunday afternoon and we made a promise to each other that we will keep our relationship a secret because if it's personal, it's more romantic (Not what u think lol. What we mean is we just want our relationship to be a secret because he's saying he's in love with me and I say I am too but I know I'm not. Just trying to make him feel good) Then yesterday night I texted him a really "you know" message and I looked at the name and accidentally sent it to my ex Alex. I felt disgusting. Now he won't stop bugging me about it! He's saying "I'll hurt ur new boyfriend because I love you." I was kindly saying to him "Look, I'm not interested. I've moved on. Sorry." and he says "No." He won't stop annoying me!!!! He's texting and calling me RIGHT now non stop! He interrupted my exam today! UGH! What do I do?? Please help. He' also threatening Steven and Steven started CRYING! It made me cry. HELP!???!
Alex is also telling everyone so now everyone thinks I'm some player or something. He even posted our convo on Facebook! But only posted my comment and him replying back with a heart. Nobody believes me! What do I do???
I forgot to add that I blocked Alex on Facebook after he posted that but people are still writing on his wall being like "Mich Spritzer blocked u" and now he's trying to contact me through texting and calling! I'm so disgusted!

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02-18-2014, 01:43 PM
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tell police

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02-18-2014, 01:48 PM
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It sounds like Steven wants a sexual relationship, as its only a second date and he&#x27;s asking for pictures and stuff. Even if it might seem like the nicer thing to do by saying you love him, in the long run its leading him on and he&#x27;s going to assume you&#x27;re up for sex. As for your ex, he sounds a bit crazy and needs to realise why he&#x27;s an ex-boyfriend! I would just leave them both, tell Steven the truth and tell your ex to back off. Be confident and hope it goes well :-)
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02-18-2014, 02:00 PM
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You need to explain to your ex that the way he is acting is seriously only making you not want to talk to him more and more. And threaten that if he lays one finger on your current bf, that you are going straight to the cops. If he thinks you are bluffing, remind him that you have all of the threatening text messages, all the stuff he posted on facebook...all of this is evidence if he tries to do something. Get angry about it and worst case scenario, tell him that you told your parents. And if he keeps spreading lies on facebook, you 'll start telling people that he has a little d**k.
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02-18-2014, 02:13 PM
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Block him. Block him on everything you have. And if he try&#x27;s to call you again, scare him by saying &quot;I&#x27;m gonna call the cops if you try calling me again&quot;.
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