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Own Experience · 02-18-2014, 04:49 PM

ugh okay i was at a concert the other day and it was pretty crowded so there where a lot of people surrounding me. and it was kind of cold so i was wearing leggings, a think jacket, and boots - not in the least bit skanky. i would never dress like that. but even then, at one point i felt a hand on my butt so i turned around and told the guy behind me to stop but he pretended like it had not been him. and two seconds later he did it again! he did this motion like he was trying to finger me which is repulsive. so i grabbed his hand and told him to knock it off. and i turned around again and he did it again! ughhhhh
i wanted to move away, but it was so crowded that there was nowhere to go. so then he finally stopped and later on he ended up in front of me. and he was talking to his friend and i heard him say something like 'yeah, the one behind me' and his friend laughed. like wtf!!
do they not know about RESPECT? in no way was i asking for it. and i felt violated as well. i'm only 17, and i've never had a boyfriend so i think that made me even more uncomfortable because i've never been intimate with someone. ugh and to think that some random ass dude touched me that way.. i feel disgusting.
but why? why do people do this? how do they even think that it is okay? honestly, it ruined my night. another thing is that he looked like he was 15.
like, seriously? how desperate and perverted can you get?
what should i have done? how can i prevent this? and why did he do it?

Nohbdy · 02-18-2014, 05:03 PM

He did it because he's a pervert. Not a lot you can do to prevent it, but if it continues with the same guy you can report him for sexual harassment.

louistorres · 02-18-2014, 05:09 PM

Can't blame the guy...WHO DOESN'T LIKE ASS

Mimi · 02-18-2014, 05:18 PM

Be thankful you weren't wearing a dress...Next time just force your way through the crowd to get away or find a security guard - all you have to do is tell them what he did and they'll throw his a*s out. It's one of the hazards of being a girl. Or turn around with your phone - take a pic of his face and post it on FB or twitter with the hashtag #bewareOfThisPerv. Fortunately most guys are raised better than that.