Need some quick advice?

[Spiky Hawk]

I've been going out with a girl for 5 dates now and it's been awhile since I've been able to see her. Since our last date, I've had an insane 8 day work week of 12 hour days, and then immediately after that, she has a week of midterms, and then going back to her hometown for a few days, leading to almost 3 weeks apart.

Normally this wouldn't be a problem, as I was actually had to be out of the country for a month between our first and second date, however our last date didn't go nearly as well as any of our other ones. Overall something just seemed off, and she seemed hesitant to hold hands or kiss me(which she blamed on getting her lip pierced recently, not entirely sure whether that was true), even though just two days earlier she had been all over me, and pretty fiercely making out with me. Since then as well she hasn't texted me as much either. Her going back home worries me as well, as that's where her ex boyfriend is, who pretty clearly is still into her, as he posts on her Facebook wall almost everyday, and likes all her photos. He also came down to see her a couple of weeks ago, and she was ok with that, although she did refer to him as her "friend".

Now it just so happens I'm going to be in her area tomorrow night for other reasons(we live about 40 mins apart), and while she's not available to go out on a date I'm thinking of asking her whether she'd want to grab a quick coffee with me as a short study break. I want to see her, and see if I can leave her with a good memory of me before she leaves, but I also don't want to appear to desperate to see her either, especially when she's already said she needs to study.

Should I ask her or not? Let me know what you think!

[Alex C]

U have to decide and tell her how u feel ABOUT HER....

Let her know you'll give everything for HER....

see if she does the same otherwise just time to move on..

[Beckay]

I think asking her to grab a coffee is a great idea. It will let her know that you are still interested, and it will give you the opportunity to gauge whether or not she feels the same. If she doesn't agree to make the effort to meet up then i'd probably just leave it there and move on. If you do get together then I think you need to make that where you stand with eachother is made clear