I need christian advise please?

[antonia]

Im a 19 year old young woman with a 16 year old sister we been raised all of our life in church and my parents are happily married. I know i did wrong in this so please bear with me:

I noticed my sister has unexplained absences and tardies so i called the school asked for a exact times and dates etc. I very wrongly hacked into her Facebook,Skype,twitter,mail and her laptop (i know so wrong i feel bad about it) What i found was so disappointing i cry every time i think about it. My sister had nude pictures of her and when i went through her convos she had sent them to several strangers across the world. Not only that but i soon found out why she has been late and where she has been while not in school. Sadly she has been having sex with multiple young men in school and out of school. I can't help but feel disapointed because we where raised beliving sex is only okkay after being married and because before my suspisions where confirmed she lied and said no she wasn't doing anything of the sort.I need help from someone on how to deal with this,weather or how i should tell my parents please no jokes or funny responses i apreciate in advanced all the answers God Bless you all and keep me in your prayers

[Jessie Geronimo]

Maybe she's doing drugs (like pot). Talk to her about it.

[Ballaurena]

God be with you. I'd tell the parents since she is still a minor. Sadly, though, I know all too well that we can't make decisions for the ones we love, and sometimes they choose horrendously bad. Keep praying but ask God if and when it is time to let go of her, harden your heart, and move on knowing that she is in God's hands.

[wildflower]

I would not apologize to anyone how I came to discover about your sister's double life. I would get my sister alone and let her know what you found out about her double life. Let her know that you will expose her, if necessary, to the parents and authorities if she doesn't stop this behavior. Be prepared to go to Child Protection Services if necessary. I wouldn't threaten to do this... I actually would go forward with it if she doesn't co-operate. It is for her own good.

If you think she will stand up against you on this, then go ahead and go to the CPS without even notifying her on this., Your decision. She's not gonna like it and she may put up a hard fight against you. Do what ever is best for your sister.

[John 3 v 19.]

you were wrong to go into her private life but have you not realised she could be crying out for love. her behaviour tells me she is not happy and accusing her will make it worse. speak to her and say if she needs to speak you will be there for her. talk to your parents and you may not have a sister anymore. she could be desperate enough to commit suicide if anyone else found out. she sounds stifled (trapped) in her life. do things she likes together. when she trusts you again she may be more open.

[Star]

1. as a person, your sister has chosen to be what she is. Freewill.
2. she is 16, she is normal, not under influence of drug, spell, satanism, etc.
3. means she is using her FREEWILL to be a whore
4. means neither parents nor siblings can change her into something she isn't.

you are clearly different from her.
its like cain and abel ... both come from the same set of parents.
one evil, the other good ... freewill

i can u/stand how upset you feel ... but you know, we just have to accept the people we love ... the way they are. If she were a friend, i would advice you to cut off all ties BUT this is your own flesh and blood.

Love her, do not judge her.
accept that if she choose hell, you must let her go, when death comes.

[Bigger]

Salam

Perhaps you will also accept Muslim advice?

In both our religions, what she is doing is very very wrong. But exposing her directly would likely only have the effect of making her run deeper into it. Does she look up to you? Try to hint that kind of behavior and why it's bad. Talk about your "friend" from college who got into trouble because she did that kind of stuff, and it ruined her life. Mention how differently your parents raised you, and how thankful you both should be. Guide her as best you can. I do not envy you the task. Tell your mother privately if your guidance doesn't work. Tell her what you already tried and why, she will likely know how best to handle it.

[shady]

Dear
I agree totally with Wildflower,she is wise.

[Candy]

Choose a time when your parents are not going to be home and have a heart to heart with your sister. Don't accuse or condemn, just listen. Tell her you hacked her computer, tell her you know the truth and you still love her. Ask her what she is going through and why she has chosen this path, then offer to help in any way you can. She will probably feel better just knowing that she has someone who will listen. If she gets angry, give her time to get over it and let her know you are still there for her when she is ready to forgive you. Sooner or later she will probably open up and tell you why she is doing these things. It could be as simple as teenage rebellion or she could be using drugs and in serious trouble. If that is the case then you will have to let your parents know so they can try to help her before she gets hurt or worse. Keep praying for her. I am sure you know the verse that says if you raise up your children in the ways of the Lord when they are older they won't depart from it. You are a very good sister to be so concerned and I'm sure someday your sis will think so too.

[TheGreatSeeker]

well I would look and chck and find out the age of the guys she is sending the pictures to and bring charges of Child pornography. Hard to say what to do, if I knew my sister was doing that I would tell my parents. I may be hated by my sister, but it would be good for her....so not just your sister gets in trouble.

If you really care for your sister hack her thing again and get all the info you can and bring it to the police. Depending on the age of the receivers of course. DO NOT PASS THAT UP......Maybe she is only sending to fellow 16 yr olds...who knows..