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Attracted to girl but can't speak to her?
02-18-2014, 11:31 PM
Post: #1
Attracted to girl but can't speak to her?
Before I start I would like to say I am currently 15 years old (so is girl I'm away to talk about) we are both shy people and not exactly the most social of people. For the story I will give her a name of Carla. I am sorry this is so long but I really need help it is eating away at me.

So we shared a class in biology last year for most of year we did not exchange one word. Our teacher rearranged the seating plan about 1 month before the end and I sat next to Carla, another girl and a boy so 4 of us. Since we sat next to each other we talked and one time both the girl and boy was away and it was only Carla and me. We had out first one to one conversation and thats when I started feeling attracted to her. I loved her voice, her personality, her conversations and everything about her. After this day had gone by we talked to each other more. Then we moved into S4 and we are not in a single class together. She sent me a friend request one day on facebook but we didn't talk. I was far too nervous to message her.

A few months went by with no contact when all of a sudden she messaged me to say she enjoyed a TV show which I recommended to her (showing that she listened). Anyway one time she messaged me to say she was back after she'd been away a few minutes I said "woo" and she didn't reply. Anyway a month went by once again I was too nervous to talk but I finally decided to talk to her but she was brief and said she wanted to revise for tests she had which might be true as we have prelims soon. When I see her as well in the corridor at school she never sees me when with friends or by herself. I dont know if this is on purpose or could be because she is nervous.

I dont know what to do Im sorry this is so long but I don't know what to do. Should I speak to her again on facebook (I don't plan to till after the prelims) and ask to meet her from their or what is the best way to speak to her again?

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02-18-2014, 11:40 PM
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Lets start by saying I'm a girl.
I've done this kind of thing before and I know its a total douche thing to do but I was your age and was really shy. I never knew how to reply to things and I could never start a conversation. I wrecked my brain trying to find things to say, She did too.. the whole "I enjoyed the tv show" thing, yeah that might be true but it was a way for her to talk to you, any reply could make her happy but when you said "woo" its just something else she didn't know how to reply to. These are all things I used to do when I liked a guy so definitely talk to her.. I don't know about the whole asking to meet up because that's when I get scared and try to ignore as much as possible to avoid the question again.

I hope this helped x

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02-18-2014, 11:51 PM
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talk to her again and again in an induceable manner (in a good way). that i cant say how. first you must clearly communicate to her what you are trying of straight away, if not, through your activities. when u come to knw that she knws what you are trying of, go to stage 2. stage 2 is when u are damn sure that she knw what u are intended, watch her activities, her reaction, her way of messaging and evrythng. Girls wont show them off very easily....here u must wait to achieve... bcoz its a simple logic. since u are able to get attracted to other gender bcoz of her talks and voice... why the same wont happen vice versa... if u talk in attractive manner to her??
And important note: girls wont reveal what they are intended of very easily.... they will wait for you to make the first step.

see..... handling a g/f is an art. no one can advice to other on this matter. bcoz gf is nt a machine to teach you how to operate. she is a human with emotions and self opinions... so nly u can make solution to this issue. bcoz nly u can knw her character, her good and bad. What i aforesaid are all already known to you... dnt u knw how to move with a girl?? still u are asking others, why??.. bcoz u want to lighten your heart by sharing this to others. In same way i'm answering to you, even aftr knowing that you already knw everythng, bcoz jus to make u more strong by cheering up!!! go bro.... i knw, u already knw about the moves... just daring to make it... My my words give some guts to u..... congrats, wishes and a very happy new year bro.

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