Does this girl like me? 10 points for best answer!?

[Jason]

So there is this girl i met on this dating app and she gave me her number and facebook. she told me that shes had an asian boyfriend before (when i was telling her a story about this rude girl She said she wouldnt have given her my number if she didnt think i was attractive and nice (with a )

I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink on thursday and she said that she was meeting up with friends and said "Maybe another time" and that shes never met up wit someone from the internet before and it makes her a little nervous to do so cause she doesnt know what my intentions are.

I was initially kinda angry but didnt show it via txt/msg and instead just played it off cool and she replied: "wow thanks for understand. most guys would take it offensively".
I kinda asked her straight up if she was just letting me off easy and that i didn't want to really waste time and effort BUt she said: "i am really attractive and nice but just got to have precautions" she said shed be more comfortable to skype sometime once she finds her username and password.

A couple days later she told me that shes thought about it and that she was going back to school and that she doesnt really have time to continue any sort of relationship cause she barely has any time for herself (ever sine then she hardly ever updated her facebook) ive msged her a couple times and ive gotten 1-2 replies with: 'hey! how are you; sorry im super busy on the weekdays" i replied with: "nice; you started school already?" and the msg says 'seen" but she hasnt replied (its been like 7-10 days); whats the best way to approach this? thanks

also does she actually think im attractive or do you think she was just being nice/letting me off easy?

[such]

she doesnt like you

[Hannah]

Babe come on, she was lying and just wants you to leave her alone. I'm sorry but that's a stupid, uninterested girl for you :/ find someone else better. She probably lied about the whole had an Asian boyfriend before

[ramond]

She's just letting down easy bro. Sounds to me like her friends just put bad ideas in her head. Don't let it bother you though. Someone with that type of character doesn't deserve you anyways. You seem like a cool guy. It's HER loss! Let it go and sooner than later you'll find that one girl that feels the same about you. I know it's not what you probably wanted to hear, but hey, that life for ya. Good luck man!

[rozen]

The best way to approach a shy girl at work, school, college, etc....
Steps

Talk to a Shy Girl Step 1.
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Make sure you are alone or at least not as likely to be disturbed. Some shy girls don't like talking in crowds because they are concerned about what all the other people think of them.
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Get up the courage to go and ask for her name if you don't already know it. If you do then either pretend you don't, or say something on the lines of 'you must be....'
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 3.
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Keep the conversation going. Ask various things like: 'you must be new here', 'do you know many people here?', 'would you like to go for a drink or dinner etc. Keep it simple for yourself. Don't say things like "My plans got canceled so you wanna go out tonight?" It'll make her feel as if she's just a fallback option.
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Do not humiliate her in front of your friends. However convincing and playful it may seem, making fun of a shy girl does not make her think you like her. Chances are, she is a self-conscious person and there is nothing she hates more than a guy who pokes fun at her, points out her bad points and humiliates her. In fact, she would probably find it rather annoying and would go off you easily. Instead, engage in a sweet conversation and make sure you at least make yourself look like you're listening.
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Don't ask too many questions, but tell her other things too, like say some things about yourself and most likely she will either reply to the things you said or make a comment about it. She might even say something about herself.
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 6.
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Don't act too nervous or the conversation will seem very awkward.
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 7.
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Act natural. When you're acting natural, it will be easier to keep the conversation flowing, and maybe you will even say something funny.
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 8.

Some shy girls like funny guys so if you're a class clown, watch out for her when you make a joke. If she has a big smile then you have succeeded in catching her attention. Take it from there!
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 9.
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She might not want to give out her phone number around other people.
Talk to a Shy Girl Step 10.
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If you're not seeking a romantic relationship, make that very clear at beginning (assuming you're male). A shy girl is very cautious about giving anyone her heart, if you break it, you may seriously hurt her feelings and traumatize her, making her future romances extremely difficult and filled with suspicion.
Try your best not to exhibit any flirting behavior, such as frequently glancing at her, smiling for no apparent reason, etc. Right at the beginning of the relationship, be friendly, but also make it clear you're interested in other girls. This way, she'll at least know that you're not romantically interested in her without hurting her feelings.
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Tips

She probably won't go talk to you; you need to be the one to start the conversation. After a while she will begin to start conversations with you. You can also wave to her beforehand.
Talk to them! (It's very important. Girls get turned off or get the impression that you don't like them if you don't talk to them)
Always smile and maintain eye contact.
Be careful on what you say if you don't really know her because she could be delicate.
Be confident!
Shy girls probably won't start talking right away.
I feel that you so called studs out there, who are having some trouble with the girls , is this , be confident ,talk to her , like you would with any girl ,be kind, and make her laugh .

when you finally get an opportunity to be alone , ask her on a date, if you get that far it's in Gods hands there's no more I can teach.

If your looking for sex be a bad boy, if your looking for a relationship , then be cool calm and collected , and be bad only to keep her guessing but always end your night with her by being nice.

Avoid basing conversation on questions, since the whole basis of that technique is based on the assumption that the other person will initiate the conversation with a lengthy reply. Shy girls will likely want to talk to you, but they'll get tongue tied and only manage a quick, to the point answer, which will just end with an awkward silence. Compensating for this by barraging them with questions is ineffective as well, since the conversation will remain one sided, with you asking questions and her answering.
It's best to initiate the conversation with some small talk related to the situation at hand (i.e "My phone's reception is so bad inside, I'm thinking of getting a new one, but I'm having trouble finding a phone that's both cheap and useful.", then continue on into a broader, but still related, topic such as specifically the iPhone and the many apps it possesses.). If you're confident, you should lead the conversation, but create pauses where she can make a comment, even just an affirmation ("yeah", "um", etc). Eventually she'll feel more confident and will make lengthier contributions to the conversation.
Don't assume things about her, she may be shy but that doesn't mean she isn't an exciting person when you get through. It's a turn off.
Some shy girls like romantic notes, drop some off in her locker. After a couple notes, later ask her to reply to and so on so forth. It would be best to start off as a secret admirer.
Make a joke, it will break the ice.

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Warnings

If you're seeking a romantic relationship, avoid making direct comments about her appearance, as she may be unsure if you're being sarcastic or not. The best things to compliment are things she may be insecure about, such as glasses, braces, etc. She'll likely appreciate a compliment that makes her feel more comfortable with something that previously embarrassed her much more than a generic compliment about her hair.
Do not make compliments you're not actually sincere about, even if you have good intentions. She'll likely notice the lie and feel very hurt, since you not only acknowledged that you noticed something that may embarrass her, you also made it clear that you could find nothing positive to say about it. Say only true compliments, or say none at all.
Never make a pun based on any aspect of her personality/appearance, at least until you get to know her better. She'll likely be unsure if you're joking or not and may be hurt.
She may not want to keep eye contact, don't worry, though! She'll likely prefer to repeatedly glance at you and hold short eye contact, rather than locking eyes for the entire conversation. If she's made some thoughtful comments, she's still listening.
Always keep eye contact and don't just stand still and fiddle with your hands. Don't stare at her, try to display a natural, interested expression, rather than an intensive concentrated expression that you would normally use during a deep, meaningful conversation.
Don't let the conversation die down! If the conversation stops, change the subject: ask her other questions or even a simple compliment will go a long way.
Do not jump from one topic to a completely unrelated topic. If you can't think of a related topic when you've exhausted the previous, it's best to gracefully end the conversation (in a kind way, such as "Well, got to go, see you after lunch!"). If you bounce from, say, your school/workplace to children in Africa, and then to Quantum Physics, unless she is showing genuine interest, it's probably best that the conversation ends, as both sides should be interested in the topics at hand.

Things You'll Need

Courage!
A few topics to talk about.
You'll need to know what she likes then when you run out of things to say or do, get a backup plan and she'll be talking to you in no time.
Or ask for help to complete any class/home work.
Get her interested.