My own family is humiliating me for power?

[Omg]

i am 30 & I live in newzealand for 6 yrs with my husband. My family lives in sri lanka. My family has been very desperate to come & settle in newzealand. So they married me to my husband as he was in newzealand and than when i came here, in very first week they asked me to sponsor my brothers. Than i found out my husband is not so nice as he is selfish & enjoy with other girls too. so in beginning i asked my family to call me back to home for some time as i was stressed but they got scared & told me to stay & cut off contact with me. They never called me and when i call they scold me and cut the phone, avoided to listen about my worries. so i felt lonely & helpless & developed hate for them in heart-- i had a nervous breakdown & went on antidepressants. (i was married to hubby for he liked me for being highly educated).. but out of bad situation i lost interest in career & stopped working. i wanted to know that my mother miss me & my husband love me too but both were selfish.. i felt unloved...

when i tried to sponsor my brother on student visa, my mom asked me to spend money on him (although they are very rich, but dont want to spend their money)

still last year i sponsored my mother & father & they came here & very first thing they do is start fighting with me in front of my hubby & than my father beat me literally & abused me sexually saying i am not good enough for my husband & he looked at me bad way...they beat me to impress my husband & to get money favour from him...now i hate them more & want to see their respect to be spoiled like they did to me..

but still when i went to srilanka this year, my husband family behaved bad with me, so i again went back to my family but they taunt on me that i tried to impress my own father.. i waqnted to die knowing their cheap trick this time to put pressure on me to give them money (i told my mother i am dying and i wrote detials about all my money and property & gave to her, she accepted it & let me go out with hubby knowing i could suicide, than i felt they are real selfish bastards who are humiliating me knowingly, so i decided to live & hurt them same) .. .so i came back to NZ & called them that i cant sponsor my brother as they can blame me even cheaper about him as he did about my own father..AND u know what they did.. MY OWN brother asked his friend to send me friend request on facebook saying LOVE..

means my own father & brothers are sexually abusing me to show they are not with me & they are spoiling my name in whole society SO now i dont know how to react and insult my own family to demean them same way they did to my respect... i never knew a girl is just a lottery ticket to their parents, real love is boys.. now someitme i think i should die but still i wouldnt .. i will revenge on them.. i dont know how to reply... and whom to complaint about this as whole family (father , his sisters, my own mother, bros, sis everyone is on same game as they r not educated to get out of srilanka & so they are just plain money hungry in anyway)

i could easily call them.. but the way they adopted & they way they have broken me inside-- now i hate them & never want to see their face or i will hate myself too...

how to revenge on them-- which family link you think i can have on my side.. i dont know what to do??

[Sandra Nicholas]

omg! your family is so selfish, my family wanted me to settle down like this to some NRI BUT i strongly disagreed and i made a career out of my own and i am now earning quite good!
so i would suggest you to do the same , detach yourself from these selfish people as you have reason to be happy and go on making a beautiful career and put all your concentration, worries on the career and when you are independent and strong, everyone would appreciate you
and dont sponser your brothers , they are gonna come and make your life more hellish here! so yeah, just try getting a good career! that's the bestest choice!