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How to make myself appear more human online?
02-19-2014, 05:45 AM
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How to make myself appear more human online?
I'm naturally a private, shy, and independent person but after making a poll about my small growing business I found that people want to get to know me more than just the photos and videos I create. I need to appear more human and open up.

Does anyone have any tips on this without becoming someone I'm not?

After all the only people who currently like and engage with my Facebook page are people who are involved with the videos and photos.
I don't know who I am really in terms of personality other than I'm very shy, an introvert, enjoys learning about people and cultures, especially Japan.
But I wouldn't know what it is about me that attracts people and want to get to know the human side of me other than just my photos and videos. Like I said I'm shy and introvert meaning I only have a handful of friends, I'm not a fan of getting close to people, but don't mind it when doing it purely for business.

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02-19-2014, 05:49 AM
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Have you any idea how refreshing it is to come across someone who doesn't plaster their every trivial thought on their website, social media etc, complete with unwanted mugshots?

Stay true to yourself and don't get into this pointless whirl of information. Clients need some basic facts about your qualifications and experience - polls aren't always that reliable an indicator...

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02-19-2014, 06:06 AM
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you practice and online alowes more time and search diffrent site.
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02-19-2014, 06:14 AM
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The easy answer is just be yourself and step out your comfort zone. To me it seems like you're afraid of stepping out your comfort zone, because as you say, you're an introvert and don't normally do those things. I can relate as i'm an introvert myself.

Of course you know yourself. Ask yourself these things....

What do i like?
What music interests me?
What am i passionate about?
What's my favorite food? etc

This might sound stupid but the point is you do know yourself, but you're just not sure how to put yourself out there. Just do it. the more you do it the more comfortable it will become.If you're not sure about what attracts people to you, ask your friends or the people them selves!
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02-19-2014, 06:23 AM
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It just means that the boys who have seen your photos online would like to take you out for coffee, then dinner and then to their local pub for drinking after you become boyfriend and girlfriend.

you will easily overcome your shyness after you have drunk about 30 coffees with different boys and then you be able to enjoy the human side of life and you will also lose your shyness for ever and ever. That is how life is.

What it is about you that attracts people (boys and men) are your looks. It is that basic. Nothing too intellectual in that.
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