How do i protect myself from my mother.?

[Zoe]

My mother is a big bully. she's mean to me all the time. i put restrictions on my facebook so she couldn't see it, and now she's threatening to shut my page down. My mother is a very mean person and i don't feel comfortable letting her into my personal life. She's already ruined my life at home. My mom doesn't have very many friends because of her behavior. how do i keep my life private from her?
well excuse me to the rude jerk in the answers, my mother has abused me since i was 8. I would much rather live with my father unfortunately that isn't possible in this moment in time. My mother has told her friends lies about me in order to make herself look less abusive. She has ruined many things for me. she has crushed my dreams, laughed in my face, and has abused me mentally and physically. and excuse me for the language but there's not way in HELL i am letting her into my personal life.

[glavendale]

well you can start by getting a job paying your own bills paying for your own food and place to live. don't want people in your social media then you could start by deleting it yourself and instead of retweeting liking or posting random garbage you could actually get out and see one of your friends , oh my god what a revelation. a good start might be to not do things you are embaressed about, if you were not doing things that are bad you would not feel the need to hide it from your mom right ? so grow up deal with it or get a job and move out but either way stop whining to the internets to fix your crap

[janewarmspot]

how old are you ?

[ASKBiblitz]

Ask her to please respect your right to a private life young people today typically conduct using social media. Explain that social media is now an essential tool for networking both socially and professionally and that you must be able to participate freely and develop communication skills and networks without unreasonable threat.

How has she ruined your life at home? That's a strong statement. How exactly?

The penalty for breach of trust in a primary relationship is inevitably the loss of intimacy. You stop sharing your private life with mom, stop seeking her approval, giving to yourself instead or seeking approval from your widening network of friends and colleagues. Trust and intimacy are earned. Learn to keep your own counsel and apply greater discretion in discussion with mom. She must understand that there are consequences for breach of trust, respect, etc. Sounds like you will both benefit from a cooling off, pulling away period. Sometimes relations recover; sometimes they don't.