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Should I get involved?
02-19-2014, 12:26 PM
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Should I get involved?
Hey I'm 23 and have been a personal trainer for 2 years. My client is 14 (15 in two days). About an hour ago I was checking my Facebook and her profile picture came up on my newsfeed... I saw it had a lot of comments and I've been training her for a year so she's like a little sister and I know she gets really badly bullied at school so I checked through the comments on her picture and most of them were horrible and saying stuff like "Go die you slut" or "You're not wanted" or "Fat" and also they wrote "Ugly" on it. I'm so angry... No one is sticking up for her and I know her mum doesn't really care about the bullying. So should I step in and stick up for her? If so what should I put? Any suggestions??

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02-19-2014, 12:36 PM
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Definitely get involved. Even if the kids keep it up, she'll know there's someone looking out for her Smile

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02-19-2014, 12:44 PM
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If you really HAVE to get involved, you should inform her school, or other responsible adults around her... you may open a can of worms if you take it on your own back to get involved... worse case scenario is that she may start to develop feelings towards you that are inappropriate, just because you are trying to be friendly. You really don't wanna open yourself up to those kind of issues with a 14/15 year old girl!
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02-19-2014, 12:50 PM
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Get involved call the police
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02-19-2014, 12:56 PM
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Of course you should do. If you don't stop the bulling, then you are a part of the bulling... Trust me, if u don't stop it, it will continue. The worst u could do is just watching it happen. I've been bullied a lot, until one of my friends stood up for me, and now I'm one of the leaders in the class(No ones feels like the are outsiders, they all feel they are a part of the community).

I know there is an age difference on you, but one person can change every thing... Trust me.
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02-19-2014, 12:57 PM
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As Jack said "no one was buying me cloths."

Buy her cloths, lots of cloths. She'll feel better then. Table cloths, Dish cloths. Any cloths you can think of.
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02-19-2014, 01:00 PM
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Yes you should, i think i'll suggest you to give her advices so she could stand up to her self from bullies.Also my advice to her is to STOP using Facebook.
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