Need advice on what to about my friend?

[Dave]

So I have a good friend (female) who is very close to me, however over the past year our friendship has taken a down hill slide due to many different situations and basically we haven’t been as close as previous years. Anyway she sent me an invite to her birthday on facebook but didn’t send me the address! I sent her several texts and calls but she never contacted me back. Yet everybody else she invited I presumed went. Fast forward a couple of days and I called her for her actually birthday and wished her happy birthday on facebook and still no reply (liked everyone else congrats except mine). I sent her a detailed message on facebook asking her to please contact me and expressed my feelings to her as a friend and told her I cant fix the problem If I don’t know what I have done and said it will take two of us to make amends. I also was hostile and didn’t say anything bad about her at all! So she replied and said I will get back to you soon with a detailed reply… Fast forward two weeks, I still have no reply! Now she is making me angry and frustrated! What should I do? If I send her a reply how I feel I fear I will lose her forever because she can never confront her problems. Im not sure what to do? If she truly cared wouldn’t she reply quickly? Why would she need so long to reply?

[Brianna]

she's avoiding confrontation, usually when this happens it means that a girl is feeling guilty or it could mean that she feel something wrong has happened in the relationship/friendship. I would say do not sweat it because if you are true friends everything will be fine and you will resolve these issues sooner than later, unless someone has unresolved or un-admitted feelings (love) for the other.. than in that case you need to speed up the condo and try until there is nothing you can do.. because than at least you tried.

[Maryam]

Don't contact her again. She's obviously got issues.if she wants to contact youshe will and you can decide if you want to answer her.but otherwise find a new friend.