Girls?? Please tell me what she's thinkin' , you are so hard to understand. :D?

[Georg]

There is this girl in my painting classes that i like. We see each other every week. About 3 months ago i asked for her Facebook account and she gave it , no problem. When we're in class she acts completely indifferent to me compared to the other boys. Maybe a little bit more special since we chatted for a while.

When in class she usually wears headphones and doesn't talk if you don't talk to her first. She's always nice to me, she always chats back very fast on Facebook. She makes some effort to keep the convo going, but she NEVER texts first. If i stop texting her we'll probably stop texting forever. Except this one time when she said she was busy and she'll chat me later and she did.

This one time I asked her out , because i want to get to know her in person ,not trough facebook. But I got rejected. She said she has to study during the winter vacation and the days around Christmas. So we keep on chatting and there's no problem but I started thinking since im rejected ill just let this the **** go and dont chat her anymore. Since she doesnt chat me first we'll probably never talk again.
But i didnt want things to end this way.

Should i tell her how I feel or ask her out again? Because i really like her I keep thinking about her and just cant get over the fact of letting go since she's really smart and pretty. Unlike other times I've been rejected on the first attempt of asking out, i go "Screw this" and move on, i cant in this situation.

She doesnt have lots of guy friends (probably 2 or 3) and i know she doesnt have a boyfriend ,but i always feel like im budding in when i chat to her while she's chatting with her girlfriends. Even though she responds fast and kind.

What do you guys think? I think this is a classic case of "Im not interested ,but im to polite to cut you off" Alt east thats what it feels like. I know she's not doing it for attention ,since she doesnt look for it. And im not friendzoned since i havent been trying to be her buddy and listen to her bullshit problems, I sent mostly flirty texts.

The question is ... should i give this girl a 2nd chance and ask again? Or swallow my feelings , cut of the chats and move on, even though is gonna be super hard.

[Bon.]

I think you should keep texting if its what she likes, remember its not always about you.

[Mara]

SHE'S SHY. She probably doesn't know what to do or how to act around you in person. So she's afraid of messing up when you go out. Also, she never texts because she's afraid of being too annoying and things like this. She probably regrets not agreeing going out with you.
Or she might have that type of strict family that doesn't allow her to "date" until *insert appropriate age here*. Stupid, I know.

I think you should give her another shot. The possible result is worth trying. Trust me.

[Jhabsdagsb]

She either doesn't want you as a bf.

She's always got no one to talk to when your round and that's why she talks to you.

She doesn't like you but wants to be polite.

My suggestion is you ask her out again. If she rejects you ask her the questions above 'do you not want me as your bf?... etc, etc' then when she explains why yeah. if she says maybe later on, and she really does have to study. then say perhaps we can stay friends but go out at a later dare.

[ 暇つぶし]

Go for the 2nd chance. you have nothing to lose. Go about the 'dating' slow I guess, but make sure that there is no confusion that you want her. Maybe she will come around, maybe she wont, but at least you tried.

Thanks for answering mine georg.

[Coco]

Thanks for answering my question, sure I'll answer yours
I know this is said a lot but you are probably over analysing things. Most people overanalyse things though, especially myself! Maybe she was just too busy to see you. It definitely sounds as if she likes you, maybe just as a friend just now but you'll never know until you try again.
Wait until you know she isn't busy studying or whatever before you ask her out again. Don't make it a formal 'would you like to go on a date with me'. Instead a more laid back, wanna hang out, could work. You two could go for a walk, go shopping, get lunch, go to the cinema or even go to a cafe for coffee/hot cho and have a chat After a first hangout you coupd visit one another's house, watch a film, play games, etc.
But for now just focus on getting her to hangout when she isn't busy. If she can't spare an hour to hangout with you then she really isn't worth your time. Good luck.