Man I loved lied to me. Need advice please.?

[Tona]

My ex and I have been in contact for the last couple of months, and last week he called me up and asked me out to spend all day together: lunch, movie, park, dinner. The next day he called and cancelled from work, saying he had to work late and couldn't drive one hour north to Seattle. ?

Just now I discovered through my Facebook page in News Feed, that he attended a Christmas party in a club in Seattle that same day, and was within 3 miles of where I live. He was bragging about how he made it to work early the next morning on the event page despite he was drunk, and had joined the event 2 weeks earlier. I was heartbroken because he lied, and was in Seattle totally clueless. I would've just liked the truth. This guy is someone I've known for a long time and met in college. I just tried talking to him about this, and so I confronted him through text, but he didn't even apologize or try talking for lying to me. He also blocked my number when I tried calling for an explanation. He just said we should both walk away. It hurt to be led on and broadsided like this. It seems like he did it to hurt me.

What's the best way to handle this situation, and get through this? Any useful and/or positive prospective/feedback would be nice.

-Marie

[BK]

You say he's your ex. So what he does is not your business.

[She Is I]

I've been in your position before, he was an ex and we hooked up. He had a girlfriend, I knew he did too. Truth was, I was being led on. I was hurt! He dumped me on my birthday for some girl he'd already been with two days before. I know its hard cause believe me, I've been there. The best thing to do is forget him. You don't need someone who lies to you. Someone out there is waiting to love you and for you to love him. Hang on, do something good. Get your hair done, go get a pedi, go out, do things for you! Lifes too short to be hung up on just one guy. There's plenty of fishies in the sea. Stay strong. You'll pull through. <3

[Helpfull]

He is your ex for a reason, move on. Guys hate clingy women and he obviously is pushing you away. I wouldnt give him a second thought. He might have not done it purposly to hurt your feelings he is obviously just more worried about what he wants to do and you arent included in his plans. His actions make it very clear. Leave it at that and dont become that crazy stalker girl.