What can I do to get her to stop?

[thischick]

My mom has added me on facebook under my stepfathers profile to basically spy on me and here recently she has started looking at my twitter because she asked why I blocked it this morning.Then she commented on the amount of texts I had because a freind of mine and I talked by email while I wasnt going to school because it was easier for us and then when I went back to class we started texting again so my texts went from maybe 30 for a payment to about 5000 since her and I talk alot because we live in different towns and are close and she said she was going to check the bill and see if that was true or not.I feel like I am being treated like a child because I messed up a year and a half ago and lied and now whenever a change happens in my life like the texting thing something is automatically up!Im 19 now about to turn 20 and I just want to be treated like an adult with trust!I go to college and am working my butt off like they asked its just annoying!Im afraid she will start hacking into my email and crap like that!I feel like my privacy is zero to none if any!If she is stalking me online what is she doing when I am not home?I feel like im not allowed to grow up or make mistakes on my own now.And right now with college its stressing me out even more.Every conversation we have had to day has either had "I will check to see who you are texting" or "If your lying I will find out".I am trying to find a job so I can move out but its like right now I feel like I have no privacy or space of mine own and talking to her hasnt helped.Is there anything I can do?
Im a girl lol!Ive been a woman for 2 years!

[Adam S]

Wow...

1) Put that shit on privacy settings (fb and twitter)
2) Cut off her access into your personal life
3) Get a job
4) Move out

I know you mentioned you were looking for a job but the sooner your have your own financial independence the less you need to be subjugated to her behaviour.

You are almost 20? you have been a man for 2 years. Get your shit together and act like it. I mean that in the nicest way possible.

Don't forget your momma loves you too... so don't kick her out just show her its your life. Good luck.

EDIT - Hey sorry didn't realise you were a girl well maybe she was a naughty young lady herself and is trying to stop you from making her mistakes... but it is still your life and you need to grab ahold of it and get in control of it.