My bf wants me to send him a pic of my boobs ...Help ?

[smile]

I mean we're in long distance relationship and we've been dating from just 4 months,though i'm very close to him. he had seen them in clothes but not bare. I'm not comfortable in sending as I don't trust him that much so i said noo you don't live alone , your friends can see them , if they use your phone, he said Ill delete them immediately after seeing , I said noo , guys are the most careless entity made by god, Im not comfortable, he rudely said ok bye m going to sleep, I said ok good night muuah Ill b waiting for your call. He din't replied neither called me . Should i text or call him ?

[Milan]

Leave him .. He's not the right guy

[Amy]

Okay gurll trust me he is not worth you. I kno it might be hard to get this in you but he's just using u. Dont send him any pictures he doesnt need to see them. If you do he knows he could get whatever he wants from you and hes gonna constantly ask u to send more and more. If your guts even tell u that u cant trust him leave him.

[Robots]

Decades, if not centuries, of girls have been coerced into doing things they don't want to do and later became humiliated by it because their boyfriends gave them the pouting treatment.

His tactic is as old as dirt. Don't fall for it.

Your images WILL be shown to others. I guarantee it.

[Austin]

surprise him and take a pic of your finger in your vaginal area.

[Frost-Bite]

If you show him your boobs, he'll keep on asking for more photos. When you denied his request, you can tell by his response that is the only thing he wanted to see.

Don't do something you aren't comfortable with. And if you two did break up, he may or may not show it to his friends. He says he'll delete it... But when? When he shows it to his friends? Show them to him in person it'll be the best way for you and for him.

[Josue]

No that's a guy you don't wanna be with if anything he should be texting you an say sorry and beg for you to forgive him

[Ovidiu]

Sorry, but your guy seems to be an a*shole!
On the other hand, NEVER send pics with you naked, not even parts of your body, to ANYBODY!!!

Your reply should be plain and simple: "Well, if you really feel like seeing my naked body, you need to move your a*s and come see it in person - no pics or movies!"...

Now, since he acts as being "upset", you should let him "cool down" and do NOT call him, or send him ANY message.
In case in, let's say, one week, he doesn't "make a move", just let him be - move on with your life, deleting his account(s) on Facebook or whatever, and blocking his phone number(s)...

My point, Smile, is that asking the girl/woman you're supposed to love and respect to act like an online ho*ker/wh*re/sl*t is... rude, to say the least!
You, most probably, deserve a better "treat"...

[r!o rockzz]

plz don't say we boyz r careless... it hurts. but i must say u did the right thing by not agreeing ... such guys cannot be trusted. if i would have been in your place i wouldn't text or called that cheapo .
DON'T DO THINGS U R NOT COMFORTABLE WITH...

[Max]

My answer is don't send him the pic, if you've been dating that long without him seeing them I'm gonna guess your underage. Don't go to jail for distribution of child pornography. Also your definitely not ready to handle him showing his friends which is a very likely situation. You know that love letter he gave you, where he bared his naked soul, and you showed all your best friends? Ya, same situation going on here.
Also he's not mad at you, just has some amount of game (for a guy whos dated a girl for 4 months without getting to see her naked anway) he is ignoring you, because he knows that it will make you feel insecure, and he must be really really horny by now. If I were you I wouldn't get mad at him though, doesn't mean he doesn't like you, its just the way guys are. We compete for sex, and girls select their choices.
If you choose too, use snapchat and make sure not to include your face. Best of luck to you guys in figuring it all out.