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My best friend and ex became a couple?
02-19-2014, 12:29 PM
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My best friend and ex became a couple?
Okay so this ex cheated on me that's why we broke up, me and my best friend were totally mad at him that time but when my best friend broke up with his boyfriend, they started to be close with each other. I was my ex's first gf and he was totally inexperienced and don't know how to handle girls, I always have to make the first move and it pisses me off all the time, he wasn't sweet at all. So my best friend asked a permission if it's okay for me if they become a couple then I said okay because I already move on. But now it hurt my pride all seeing them lovey dovey on Facebook all the time and there is always a group message that my best friend was sending to many people including me about their date, how they love each other and so on. It just pisses me off how my ex are doing all of the things that I want him to do to my best friend when we were a couple. It feels so unfair, I feel like he wants me to regret breaking up with him. It sucks. Is it okay to feel like this? I really feels like a bad friend.

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02-19-2014, 12:33 PM
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wow, it's hard, but it is their decition
could you answer my question
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...327AAmeSMA

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02-19-2014, 12:41 PM
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The only bad friend here is yours for dating your ex. It's cool she at least asked for, but it's still against girl code.

He might only be treating her that well because he learned from his relationship with you. Keep in mind you were his very first girlfriend. Each relationship changes how you approach love at least a little.

In all likelihood, he'll cheat on her too and then she'll realize how dumb she was for dating him
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02-19-2014, 12:49 PM
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Maybe he loves her, maybe he didn't as much as her.
I know it feels bad, but you gave her the permission, plus it's totally okay to feel that way cause he didn't treat you like he treats her. but don't say anything to her or to him just be happy for them, you'll move on Wink
good luck
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02-19-2014, 12:58 PM
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You should be happy for them because you know that your ex is happy and taking good care of your bestfriend. As you mentioned your ex is inexperience when you were together so through you he learned a lot that is why he doesn't want to make the same mistakes and be a better man. It is normal to feel that way but you just need to totally move on. She is your bestfriend and you should be happy for her.
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02-19-2014, 01:02 PM
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wow first of all do let them group message you becaus they are both rubbing it in because they know it urkes you. you wanna know whats messed up: your friend is a loser. i would stop being friends with her instantly. you know why? you told her all the things you didnt like about him and all things that made you mad and she took that information and told him so now he is being so public with his affection to get back at you. she used you to get to him. believe me though that when i say karma is a biatch, it is. it will come back on her because she was never your friend to begin with, because if she was she wouldnt even had dared to go that direction with him especially after the way he treated you. people are so lonely that she couldnt find her own person to chase so you took your left overs. yuck.. please do the world a favor and when they break up just be happy on the inside and dont be friends with her again even if she tells you how sorry she is. you are better than that and you will only look foolish if you let her back in.
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