I just found out I'm the other woman?

[Ell]

I just found out I'm the other woman. I had no idea, he said he was single. It's been ~7months. I found her Facebook page, do I tell her? Do I bring it up with him? I'm ending it for sure, but what do I do? HELP
It's hard. I don't want to hurt her cause I didn't even know she existed but my gut told me something wasn't right. I'm so embarrassed and would NEVER do this kind of thing. It might hurt her though ...

[Valleycat1]

Yes, tell him that's why you are ending it with him. Leave his wife alone.

[Finwie]

I'd tell her. She deserves to know the truth.

[Addicted To Me]

You should do what your heart tells you to do. you should tell her. BTW if you want to end it than go to him fight him, humiliate him and end it.

[Kacie]

Okay i've been in this situation. and i tried to tell her. Im sorry but if it were me.. i would want to know... you feel embarrassed ... imagine how she would feel not knowing her man has been cheating on her... i would say to tell her. but be gentle about it.

[Chirp]

I would not give him the benefit of a goodbye and of letting him see that he had hurt me. I would contact her and tell her you met him and he told you he was single and you've had a 7th month relationship and you just learned he is married. Tell her you will never see him again and wish her well.