Did I over react? help please !?

[Thatgirl]

One month ago:

my bf told me about this Ukrainian blonde "bombshell" girl in his Russian class. He was hinting to me that, she was "hitting on him" because of a few occurrences. He told me that, she's out of his league and that she wouldn't go for someone like him because she goes for alpha males.... (This was last semester)

Last Thursday:

My bf gets really paranoid sometimes so he goes on google to search for answers. And I was curious, I wanted to check if he was still paranoid (about if one day i'll cheat on him or what not, but I've never cheated on any of my previous bfs before, he's just very very paranoid). So in his "history" tab, I found a lot of searches for "Ukrainian girl in architecture at (our school)". I asked him about it and he said, "yeah I was trying to find her on facebook and possibly add her, my friend and I miss seeing her in class cause she's not there anymore. She's eye-candy".

So I stood up and tears flooded my eyes. I feel like second best. He compliments other girls more than he compliments me. He talks about how nice a girl's ass is. I am confident about my looks... but when your own bf does this, it creates a dysfunctional mind set cause I'll always question myself why he's with me, is it just for the sex? It hurts. I feel unattractive now when I'm with him.

[Leona Powzell]

ok so you expect him to stop noticing the attractiveness of other girls just because hes dating you?? i mean cmon. also looking through his history is creepy and not ok. you brought this on yourself

[Will]

It's a guy thing. Please don't take it personally. All guys do it whether it's just in their head or they actually address it. You are not second best if you are still together. He just notices other girls as well. Trust me it's guy genes to think, "man, she got a fine booty on her!" If you're still together, he thinks the same about you, or if you don't have a nice booty(I don't know what you look like) he thinks, "man I am so luck to have a girl that likes me enough to be jealous" if you have a nice bod, he probably talks and brags about you to his friends. I know I would. Hope this helps and y'all get it all figured out

[Ted Gallegos]

He's still human. He can't stop himself from noticing other girls. Doesn't mean he doesn't think anything of you. Why the heck would he want to be with you? Just think about it.