Ex-friend keeps facebook stalking me?

[Sara]

My childhood friend and I recently had a falling out. We'd been drifting apart for a long time because more and more I couldn't overlook certain personality and character flaws.

I recently left for college, hoping that I could simply let us drift apart quietly. Ignoring all of my cues, she posted on my facebook wall so many times that I finally was forced to explain to her that I wanted the friendship to end. After an angry conversation, I set her a long email that both celebrated our friendship, and let her know that we weren't going to be friends anymore.

She begrudgingly replied, and said, "Just promise me one thing- let me stay your facebook friend so I can keep track of where you're going in life."

This creeped me out a bit, because although I was intending to remain facebook friends with her in the first place, the remark seems a little stalkerish to me.

Now, the friend posts on all of my major pictures and statues, and occasionally sends me a message saying how much she misses me, or to wish me a good day.

Honestly... it's creepy. I don't want to cut her off, but it makes me uncomfortable to know that she's still watching my every move.

What should I do?

[Samson Melika]

easy, block her

[just wants to know]

Warn her one final time. If she refuses to leave you alone, go ahead and block her on Facebook.

[What]

That is creepy.. maybe you should wait a few weeks to see if she still keeps it up. If she does then you should either tell her to stop stalking you or unfriend her. Both seem harsh though. Good luck.

[Nicole]

Let's be honest, it is kind of creepy that she asked you to keep her a Facebook friend so she could watch your every move. I get it, Facebook is a place where we keep in contact with the people we love and care for, I think that's great. That being said, you're also entitled to your privacy..If you don't want her knowing every little detail about your life, I would suggest deleting her..If it makes you feel uncomfortable and watched, delete her. What's the worst that's going to come from the situation? You two are already no longer friends.

You could let her know that you would love to remain in contact but perhaps exchanging e-mails from an actual e-mail account?

[widehorse276]

Unfriend or block her.

[Brenda.]

I think that she is a stalker & you should not have her as a friend on facebook. If in the first place you did not want to be friends why would you want for her to know about your life. That is creepy. If you consider her your friend leave her, if not then delete her.

[RIcky]

She's lesbian and wants to get with you. We get it. You want to be her friend but she wants to stay friends with you and keep track with what you're doing. That's sorta creepy but she's doing it because she cares about you and doesn't want to lose you. If it's getting creepier every time she posts a status, tell her one day that it's making you uncomfortable and disturbing and message her that I don' think we can remain friends anymore, not even facebook friends for the time being, I'm sorry, but goodbye. Block her, and what's the worse she could do. She doens't know where you live so just face it and click that Unfriend & Block button.

Sorry about your friendship but hope this helps

[?]

If she was a good friend, let her be, and talk to her maybe every week, maybe 2 times a week, ignore her mostly and only reply when she starts the conversation, other than that, just tell her that your sorry, but life has gotten a little too personal to be sharing with you, and nicely ask her to stop

[Sienna]

"Just promise me one thing- let me stay your facebook friend so I can keep track of where you're going in life."

This would be the deal breaker for me right here. That is creepy and the start of a potential obsession.