is my girlfriend cheating?

[Chris]

i need some advice on what to do.i don't want to believe it but i think its true.i met my girlfriend over a year ago .its been an online relationship.we have always been so happy together.were talking everyday for hours.well on the 27th of last month i went into her facebook and say her talking to another guy.i do get a little jealous being that i dont really know what is going on.i freaked out and broke up with her.it turned out he was just a friend she knew .and i had proof it was.she is having a birthday party tomorrow for her 19th birthday.she invited some guys and girls.i did ask who the guys were,she told me and convinced me they were just friends.i took it as that.she told me who the girls were and i believed her.well last night i checked her facebook and say that she was in a relationship with someone which was a shock.so i looked more into it and i saw messages from her and her mom under the relationship staus.her mom asked how the relationship was going ,she said they were happy and they cant wait to meet on monday.the realtionship started on the 2nd of this month.so i checked to see who it was and i saw a converstaion between one of her friends and the friend asked if she felels the same way about david as she feels about carlos and she said yes.david is one of the guys she mentioned who is coming to the party so he is not a friend.she told me he was taken by another girl.i checked her profile and she is with another guy.this hurts me like hell.all this month she has been telling how much she loves only me and that it hurt like hell that i broke up with her.she said she was only giving me one more chance,even yesterday she told me how much she loved me.do i just wait to hear what her reason is on why she lied and cheated.is it partly my fault that i ended it with her and asked her back? i feel like i lost her forever and she is just afraid to tell me she's seeing him.she is actually playing both of us,she is telling me she loves me still every day.what should i do about this.i kinda feel like if i wouldnt have broken up with her she would not be with him.she told me she was in the hospital.she cut her wrist .thats how bad i hurt her.i dont even know if thats true.i still love her but she needs to make up her mind who she wants.if she wants him she needs to tell me.i would rather her be honest than string me along.is it partly my fault or do you think she was trying to find an excuse to leave.i just need some answers to this.

[Ry]

OMG online soap opera

[Kevin]

yeah she's cheating

[William J]

Dude, you're an online person and from what I read, you never really met her in person. That's the difference between you and this other guy. You're an online toy and this other person will actually physically be there in her face. I think you should just break off communication with her and move on, don't let anything she says stop you. Cry if you have to, but move on buddy, you'll look back and see how stupid you were later on.

[Brianna]

Dude how old are you?