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I have no friends, and I get called antisocial?
02-19-2014, 12:34 PM
Post: #1
I have no friends, and I get called antisocial?
Ever since first grade i've always had 1 best friend.
Then in 5th grade she moved and i made 5 new best friends.
then in 6th grade I moved schools, and I met my best best best friend. I had a few other friends in 6th grade. But I spent ALL my time with my bestie.
In 7th grade I was always with my bestie, and walked from class to class with her did my hw with her hung out with her. we did everything together. She makes me feel really confident around others. So in 7th grade I had boyfriends and lots of friends, and i even had my first kiss and it was my bestie that introduced us haha

Then in 8th grade my world went upside down. My bestie moved and like i said she gave me a lot of confidence because i know shes always there for me. I have no confidence now. AND i got put in honor classes!Sad The thing is no one in the honor classes knows me. and they've been in the same group since 6th grade. they already have their friends. they dont want to make new friends and my twin sis has been in this class since 6th grade she has a whole lot of friends, and what I hate is EVERYONE COMPARES ME TO HER its sooooo anoying but i dont like my sisters friends their the popular girls and there really annoying. and i put my self out there but no one cares or even sees me they already have their bestfriends. I have to eat lunch with the honor stuidents too and i eat lunch without saying a word cuz like i said im invisible and dont even get a chance to talk. and now people call me anti social and lame and i dont have A SINGLE FRIEND and its already the second semester of school so its too late everyone already sees me as the socially awkard girl. Sad(((((
BTW im not good at starting conversations with strangers and making friends. Dont tell me to compliment someone or just say hi hows the weather i've already done that . and dont tell me forget friends because imagine going to school 8 hours and not talking to a single person. And im in the most advanced classes my school has and im on honor roll & i take school very seriously.
Not to sound full of my self but im in fit, and in good shape, and im very pretty, and have the latest, nicest clothes, and long wavy hair! In 7th grade all the boys wanted to be with me now the boys dont even look at me because i dont have friends Sad

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02-19-2014, 12:43 PM
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ur not ur problem shy i only have 10 friends and i am in middle school

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02-19-2014, 12:49 PM
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Wow, that really sucks! I'm really sorry to hear that, but your life isn't over.
Take a deep breath and try to relax.
I don't know if you use fb(facebook), but you could find your bestie who moved on there and I'm sure you have her number so you can keep in touch.

So here is what you do, you have to realize that just because you changed classes, the people who were your friends before, are still your friends. When you see them in the hall or something, try to say hi.

You also do have a friend in your class(even though you don't think so), your sister. Try to get her to introduce you to her friends. She can really break the ice for you.

You will have to learn to be more confident and try to make conversation. I was shy for a really long time, before I decided that I didn't want to be shy anymore. You have to make an effort to make new friends, even though you really miss your bestie.

You will be fine, you have to try to be less shy.
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