I JUST STARTED SEEING THIS GUY?

[Chyeaa]

I just started seeing this guy right around New Years. He has texted me EVERYDAY...all day. We started going out. And I was spending my days with him at his house and ect. I went home even yesterday and he texted me 2 hours after and I made a joke and said "Already miss me?" and he said "Yup!" and we talked all night. He's already talked about future stuff with me. And I admit I JUST had sex with him on Saturday. He texted me this morning and said "Hey babe" and I texted him hours later when I woke up and said "You got up early" and he didn't respond..for the first couple hours I thought nothing of it...but then it went on like 6-7 hours and I texted him "Danny! " and no response. Now it's 1am and still no text. I also saw that he was on Facebook too and his phone icon said he was on a few hours ago.

I know I sound clingy.. but I'm really not. I never text him first or anything ..I don't wanna text him and be like "Helllo???" because THAT'S clingy. It makes me nervous because I just had sex with him and he made it a point too that he wasn't going anywhere... besides why would he text me in the morning but never respond back all day/night, that's not like him at all. If anything HE will text me if I don't respond in a couple hours asking me what I'm doing.

[Chyeaa]

Hes got what he wanted dear, sex. He has so use for you now.

[Az]

Breeeaaathhheee

A day isn't that big of a deal. He could've gotten busy or something, and you SHOULD take that into account. If he doesn't text you tomorrow, though, I'd be a little concerned. Why he wouldn't text, I'm not sure..Unless he was just looking for sex. Guys are sneaky like that and will talk about future events and all that to make you more comfortable.
If you don't hear from him for a couple of days, you probably won't ever. Just wait and see what happens, and in the meantime try not to panic/think about it too much. Its likely no big deal and you'll get back to your normal cute texts every day

[H]

Texting is not talking. With talking, you use your mouth, make sounds, words, etc. Texting is impersonal and holds no emotion and you can't even see the person you are texting.

So, you already had sex with him. It sounds like he is a bit clingy to text daily.

You also have to understand another thing about texting. It gets old. People have lives and are not glued to their phones or computers 24/7...and they shouldn't be. It's not healthy.

Now that you've had sex with him, you seem to think that this neverending texting relationship will continue. That's not realistic.

Why are you stalking him online to see if he's been on his facebook? Why can't you just go about your business, do your own thing and talk to him at another time, set up another date, etc?

It sounds like you are both very young and don't know each other very well. As for "I'm not going anywhere" after you had sex....that's a line. It's not uncommon. People say that to get what they want.

As for not texting today...perhaps something came up, he has other commitments, his family needed him, etc.

You won't know until you call him and talk to him. Stop texting.

[A.G.]

Well I think you should text him and be straight up.. I would ask if that was it, just sex? That doesn't mean clingy at all.