I really don't know what to do now?

[hellosuzie]

Me and my best friend fell out.
So there's Me, Jade (my ex-friend) and Tom (the most annoying person ever, really.)
I'll go through the whole thing: (sorry it's long :/)

On Friday about 2 weeks ago, I got out of school when my last lesson was English. In that lesson tom and jade were laughing and joking around and tom was being really annoying and I knew that he hated me.
after I got out and me and jade went to the bus stop and i told her that I really don't like tom and that he really annoys me and arghhh...then I told her not to tell him. She said yeah.
Over the weekend I broke my toe which led to an infection in my foot (I really don't know how) so I couldn't go to school the following week. But in that time jade had told tom what I said and she and him fell out with me. Which to be fair was not reasonable at all because I wasn't there to defend myself and she betrayed my trust.
When I got into school this Monday, I heard that they had fallen out with me so I didn't talk to them. But I hung around with my friend Emma.
Thing is, when I was in the cafe at school they were on another table laughing and pointing at me so I just ignored them.
But the main thing is me and jade were supposed to be seeing a band called fightstar and she sold the ticket I payed £16 for and I only got £13 for it (she ordered these tickets). so I’ve lost out on that concert but on December 11th me and her were seeing paramore (this time I ordered the tickets) so even though she only give me £20 for the ticket when really she should have gave me £23, but she's demanding her ticket. When I was asked to give it to her when it comes I said yeah. :/
Now for one thing the tickets I got were supposed to be standing but it looks like they ran out so we are seated. I don’t want to sit by her. And another thing is that if she gets her ticket, I’ll have to get there on my own, which is going to be difficult; we live about 40 miles away from Birmingham. She would go with her friend Lucy who bought her own ticket. I don’t want to give her the ticket because I lost out on fightstar and even though paramore are a way better band, I think she should lose out. But I don’t know how to not give her the ticket, i want to just give her the money back but she’s gonna kill me. She’s making my life hard as it is.
Should i just give the ticket to my friend Catherine and give her £20 back?

I’m so sorry that was so long but I need some friendly advice. :/
i'm so depressed and lonely, and now tom's saying harsh things to me on twitter. I don't know what to do atall :/
help me?

[Drew]

Best thing you can do is be strong! My (ex)best mate stopped talking to me (god knows why?) and i don't know what i've done so right now i act like i'm doing well without him and i don't need him etc and hopefully that makes him feel worse Usually people do this kind of thing for reaction so just don't react.

P.s go see paramore they are just too kick ass to not see
Good luck!

[ClaireyFairy]

Ok, firstly Jade is a cow and you're better off without - you'll learn that as time goes on. Certain friends are not friends, they are frenemies.

You need to put yourself first, and show that you're not going to be walked all over. Who does she think she is demanding the ticket when she didn't give you the chance with your ticket to see fightstar.

I say you give her the £20 back and say i'm sorry but I paid for the ticket so I get to do with it what I want. I don't mean to sound like i'm saying this for you to get back at her after giving your ticket away. But you need to stand up for yourself. And put your foot down. Bear in mind that this course of action could make the feud between you worse but is she worth being friends with anyway?!

Good luck. Block that Tom on twitter and tell him to bugger off. And don't feel lonely, you have other friends and you need to work on your other friendships rather than worrying about Tom and Jade, who sound like bullies anyway. I know its easy for me to say but there are plenty more people out there who'd want to be friends with you!