Is this a normal relationship are things coming to an end?

[Jenna]

I am 29 and my boyfriend is 31. we have been living together for 2 years. He refuses to have me on his facebook friends list and post no pics of us but most of his friends know we are together. Every other person he meets he adds. secondly he is not very affectionate: when I come home from work he never hugs me or gives me a kiss, in fact he barley kisses me at all unless he wants to have sex. Our sex life is still good he'd have sex every day if I let him. when we go out dancing or to the gym he pretty much leaves me alone untill it's time to leave. Lately he has been wanting to see his 'boys' more snd go clubbin or drinking with them. He also said a few days ago he was never going to marry me which crushed me completly. I am really stressin over this and need some unbiased answers.

[Jessica]

Things will end.

[kate]

Things are coming to an end. He doesn't have you on facebook for a specific reason. He's either seeing someone on the side, trying to, or is ashamed of you. If he told you he will never marry you at your ages and with how long you've been together, it's unlikely he's lying. It sounds to me as though he wants out, but he doesn't have the guts to leave himself, so he's trying to push you to do it. I'm sorry, but at 31, he knows if he's serious about you and he isn't. Telling you he'll never marry you tells you that he doesn't see you two together in the future. It's time to make a plan and move on.

[Lew]

He is never going to marry you..... what more does he need to say?

[Amenjoy]

This same ? was posted on YA a while ago.

He's hiding you from someone.

[RobertRay]

This is a relationship that is destined to end. All of the things you describe are not normal for 2 people that are supposed to be in love. When it comes right down to it, it seems like he uses you for sex and doesn't want much else to do with you.

He already said he will never marry you, and even if he did, would you want a husband who denies you on social media, shows very little affection, strays from you in public and prefers to hang out with his friends over you? Marriage would sentence you to a lifetime of this kind of treatment.

I can't believe that at age 29 you need to ask if this is a normal relationship. Have you never been in a relationship where you were treated like you mattered? There are so many guys that will want to include you in their life and be proud to have you as their woman, both in real life and on social media.

[Emma]

Dump him. He is just blocking the way. You deserve a fulfilling relationship, not thus garbage he is giving you.