PLEASE HELP URGET IM SO CONFUSED :'(?

[Samantha Defferary]

i had a boyfriend, in the summer, who broke up with me in october.
we were both each other's first everything so i was so shocked to see he got a new gf in december.
he changed his relationship status on facebook to in a relationship... which is how i found out.

today i logged on facebook (i stalk him all the time because i am so in love with him, although we never talk anymore and he doesn't know). anyway, his relationship status wasn't showing so i clicked about and it showed his date of birth etc AND IT SAID SINGLE. but, thing is, his girlfriend (ex ???) still has her relationship status as in a relationship she changed her profile picture today and he liked it, and he liked her posts too. and only recently (10 days ago) she put a photo of him and her on facebook together, and he liked it when she put it up, etc.

could it be that facebook made a mistake and that he is actually still in a relationship????
or is he actually single?????? so why is her relationship status still in a relationship??? why is he still liking her posts and photos??
or maybe he is just putting his status as single for no reason?????????????


please please please help.
and please dont tell me im obssessed and a stalker, i know i am but i can't help it, i miss him soooo much. please don't tell me to tell him how i feel about him either because it's long distance anyway and we tried to make it long distance but it didnt work (not for him anyway, i would happily wait for a thousand years). and please don't tell me to forget him "move on" because i can't and if i ever will then only time can help me.

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[S]

U need help GF! Get a life, stay away from him. Now if he comes back, n the both of u hook up n this time its right, then congrats but in he mean time, stay away from him, get a life, forget about him n/or ur past with him.

U got the message the first time, move on, plse move on. He has....

[David Park]

He may be at some game or broke it off with her but are still friends. Ummm just be patient and see what develops. Sounds to me like it will not be long before he is single.

[greenmonkey202]

Before facebook us older people like me (im 31) had another social network thing....it was called "a life" i suggest you get your ass off facebook and get "a life" they are free ya know.

[Star]

I was going to tell you to tell him how you feel, even though you said not to tell youi that, sorry, I would never tell you to forget him or "simply" move on. I dont care what anyone says, we all face book stalk, so to speak, and to tell someone to not obsess abt their first love is just absurd. NOBODY EVER forgets their first love! period!!! Im in my fifties, Ive done alot of living in my life but I will never forget my first love. I know him still and Im glad we never married but I believe there is a place in everyones heart made just for your 1st love that nobody else could ever fill. Thats normal. Im sorry youre going through this but everybody does when they break up with their first and you will never forget him and he will always give your heart butterflies and Im sure you do his too. If you dont feel you can tell him how you feel then I would suggest sitting down quietly and write him a letter. Dont hold back, just start writing and purge every detail of what your feeling on paper. It doesnt matter if it makes sense or not bcause its YOUR CHOICE as to whether or not this letter will ever be mailed or not. Alot of times you can go back and read your own words and it will clear alot of confusion. It really helps me when I do this at least. When your finished reading it you have the option to destroy it, the letter, if you so wish, and with that in mind you can really open up to yourself. Start a letter to him, you'll learn alot about yourself. Then it will be clear to you what you should do.