My friends make me feel so insecure what should i do?

[ashley]

I have to friends that are my best friends. We always hang out together and have a lot of fun but lately they've been ganging up on me. Everything I would do or say my one friend would make fun of and the other one would either make fun of me to our just not say anything. It's been really hard for me because I feel like there is no one to stand up for me. I made an instagram fashion account and so did my friends and my account got a lot more followers than me so they quit using theirs and they always make fun of my account and post mean comments on my pics. They point out all my flaws and undermine my achievements. Its really hard because they have been my best friends since kindergarten and nothing like this has ever happened. I put hashtags on one of my pics on instagram and they kept on going on about how weird it was even though they do the same thing just delete them after they get lots of likes. They say everything I do is weird and I can't stand it, even things that they do too. Every time I try to talk to them about it they call me overly sensitive. What should I do? Am I just being overly sensitive?

[melissa]

If you don't feel comfortable the way you're being treated you can always get new friends.

[Nikki]

Well my best friends and I always make fun of each other but it's in a joking way it's not to make us feel bad. It seems to me that your friends feel as if they are better than you and have changed. Seriously quit putting yourself in that position get new friends even if it is hard. Everything always works itself out in the end. Good luck my friend.

[Lexi]

Well, this has happened to me many times before. But sometimes I can be overly sensitive, you aren't the one being overly sensitive though. But it sounds like they aren't true friends. If they keep ganging up on you and hurting your feelings then maybe you should try to find friends that don't make you feel upset, or at least talk to them about the situation. If you want to talk to someone about it you can always talk to me, I will be your friend
-Lexi

[SweetCheeks]

You're not being overly sensitive at all! You have every right to be upset! The same thing happened to me.. My 2 best friends were much closer and i'd often be walking behind or they'll be talking and when I try to make effort to join in they'd find something to make fun of me for. Making new friends was the best decision I've e v e r made, like honestly! It was hard making friends at first, but when I found the right people, I've never been so happy.

You're supposed to be 110% happy around your true friends.. ALWAYS. True friends are supposed to bring out the best in you.. True friends are supposed to be there for eachother not only on the good days but the bad days too. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but do you really think those girls are true friends?

Good luck, it'll all be okay(:

[Maggie]

If you have to ask whether or not your friends are treating you right or if you're in a healthy relationship, then ditch them. I agree with Sweet about the 110% thing. I had friends like that once, and you know what I realized after I cut ties? They were jealous. It seems like you are outgrowing these people. I promise you, you can do a lot better than people who mock your art.

Honestly, I can't picture a world where my friends would mock my playing or my passions. That's bullsh*t. Don't go another day feeling put down by people who call themselves your friends. Just don't, you may grow more and more resentful and just feel flat terrible like I did. If you really believe you don't deserve it, then you don't.

[Dlee]

Wrong kind of friends, true and honest friends do not do those kind of things. You are not being over sensitive, but actually becoming aware of what if wrong with the friends you have. Trying to fit in with other people is always going to hurt in the end. I am only going to guess that all of you are young, the toughest and hardest part of our lives to get through.

They say "Words are cheap because supply exceeds demand" Meaning people tend to say more than they need to say and make fools of themselves.