Help! any advice? should i try still? shes worth marrying. at least to me.?

[kingmb22]

My gf hasn't talked to me in many days. She recently had surgery and im worried. last month her mother went through car looking for a "calculator" and found weed in her car. My gf said she could not talk to me anymore because her mom and my girlfriend of 3 years and 2 months thinks that it was mine. I have never done drugs. I'm 17. Going to be a nurse and I would never put her in that type of position. She didnt speak to for at least a day and then when she did she messaged "I don't want to be with you ever again because I just found out that you cheated" first off I didnt cheat. She saw something on twitter from 2011. she told me that her mom stalks my twitter to see if I message her. we got back together. were amazing til she said that 35 guys messaged her in 5 minutes. Then she searched a guy on instagram and said this was the guy trying to hit on her. I was a upset and I messaged her that I was a bit upset and wanted to figure out why is she searching other guys when she would leave me if I ever did that and she just said I was messing around and then she text me and said that she is done the day before she had her surgery. And she blocked me on everything. For her mom I put my twitter on private because it was obvious her mom was still checking my twitter and later her mom text me and asked if I was talking to her and I did not reply. Its been a week since then and I just couldn't take it anymore. I texted my gf and said I hope you can see this with a cry face. And her mom texted me that she gets the messages I send to my gfs phone on her phone. And I said okay I'm just worried about her and miss her. Her mother told me that I'm being ridiculous and she'll tell my mom If I talk my gf and that she won't pay her daughters tuition if she ever talks to me and she will kick her out. Then she said my gf had her reasons on why she doesn't want to be with me but my counselor and others think its her mom causing this. We're about to be 18. she's worth it. I love her

[Shaeeck]

This sounds like complete high school drama and needs to be in that section. Until you have your own place then you have to live by your parents rules. Even if her mother is dictating her life she cannot do anything about it until she has her own place and life. At the moment neither of you have that.

You are both a long way off marriage and without the steady family support then this relationship is doomed.Sorry but someone needed to tell you.

[Alexander]

Oh god...tell her mom that you need to talk to her. When you do talk to her tell her everything and by everything I mean EVERYTHING, the whole truth and if she still blames you, tell her that you are really, really sorry and that you would like to have another chance with her and that you care for her daughter and still love her.
Give her mother the choice over yes or no and if she says no tell her that you respect her decition.

[RobertRay]

Sorry man, this one is over, and it's a complete mess of drama. When I was your age I was crazy about a girl and wanted marry her and all that crap, and I thought my life was over when we broke up. When I look back on that I laugh because it wasn't even close to a good relationship, just like yours isn't. When I think back to that relationship all I can say is "What was I thinking?" but back then I knew she was the one for me and nobody could tell me any different.

You don't believe me but I guarantee that in 10 years you will look back on this and laugh.