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Advice about a guy that didn't treat me right?
02-19-2014, 12:39 PM
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Advice about a guy that didn't treat me right?
There's this guy that I met last February and we hit it off straight away. Long story short we were extremely close, liked each other for a while but he got over me while i unfortunately fell in love with him. He never treated me right, ALWAYS making empty promises, he's hurt me more than I can even put into words. As I said, he got over me, and he now likes this other girl. He always tells me he wants to see me soon but that he's just really busy (he has two jobs, starting uni, etc) but on social networking (instagram) I always see that on a weekly basis he's meeting up with that girl he likes. She's his personal trainer as well so that's his reason for why he has time to meet up with her and not me, but he's constantly saying how busy he is but he always manages to find time to go out for a drink with her after training etc.

I know I need to let go and move on but I'm just finding it really hard to accept that the person I thought I'd always have by my side / would always be with, just moved on so quickly. I don't have many friends and so I don't have anyone to 'move on' to. I'm just really hurt and struggling to be happy and move on, because as I said, I really did love him.

It just hurts so much and I'm having a really, really hard time letting to. I was wondering if there was any advice you can give me about my situation / how to move on? I really appreciate you taking the time to read this and possibly answering.

Thank you so much, have a nice day xx

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02-19-2014, 12:43 PM
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No advice. He just didn't realize what he had was special keep looking sweetheart life has it's ups and downs.

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02-19-2014, 12:46 PM
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Long story short, huh?lol Here's a short story long: Move on, better yourself and you'll be happier.
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02-19-2014, 12:47 PM
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He is the looser. He missed a truly loving person.
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02-19-2014, 12:50 PM
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I think keep in yourself occupied and busy would help,', starting making new friends
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02-19-2014, 12:53 PM
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Look Hun i speak from experience and i been hurt many many times....and i really suggest to you to break all contact with him because if you don't see him or talk to him you will forget it quicker, you checking his social media is just making it worse for yourself.... the question is why would you chase someone who doesn't care about you or wants to make time to see you?

The other thing is try to make yourself busy do something that will take your mind off him, because you waiting around on him did it bring you any good? waiting for someone is like expecting a lion not to eat you...

falling in love is hard but falling for betray is worse, and i assume your young and trust me you will find someone who you will mean the world to, and who will appreciate you. who will drop what ever his doing and come to spend sometime with you..

Don't need him, and his baggage claim!
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02-19-2014, 01:01 PM
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I'm sorry, but you see how he is treating you this in itself should tell you that he is lying to you when he says that he will see you soon. you are just holding n to false hope. and you should want to be with him just because of the fact that he lied to you, and when a person lie they can't be trusted. I have a feeling that he moved on do fast because he already had her. you should be glad that he is out of your life, a liar is no good for your self esteem and they will use you until they can't. jump for joy and don't feel bad because you can't see him any more. and if he tries to come back to you tell him that you have someone else. don't keep thinking that you love him so much until you can't let him go. you'll find someone else. this happened for a reason, it meant that he wasn't meant to be with you. move on you can do it, you want someone that feels the same way you feel about them, and he don't feel for you what you feel for him, that should make it easy for you to move on. I wish you well
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