This guy is ignoring me... I need advice (long, I apologize...)?

[=)]

Well this guy and I have both known each other for over a year. We've been "dating" since we've known each other. Last semester, he had broken my trust. Things haven't been the same since. He kept contacting me over the summer, but I was trying to move on. But then in September he came back into my life asking for a relationship, but I told him not this semester.
Regardless though, we've been out on dates.
But, unintentionally I keep pushing him away. I would feel attached to him, and then push him away in fear that I would get hurt again. During Thanksgiving break, I kept responding back really late. When we got back, he told me to text him when I'm on my campus so we can hang out, though I told him pretty late.
3 weeks ago he was acting weird, though on Tuesday night out of nowhere he told me goodnight. But the next day was my Chem exam and he didn't text me at all, not even to say good luck, though the next morning he asked how it went and said hopefully I did well. Then for the next 2 days he would stop texting me out of nowhere though he did say he was stressed about finals and needed to catch up. And on Thursday some guy was selling tickets for a comedy show, I texted him asking if he wanted to go, but then the next day I changed my mind.. he didn't respond after.
Saturday morning, he asks to have a talk. We set up a place and time, though he backed out and asked to speak the next day. The next day, he never texts me. So I texted him it's not ok to keep me hanging, and he said he apologizes he doesn't mean to, there's just a lot on his mind, and it wouldn't be fair to distract me with his problems especially with finals coming up. So we decided to talk it out after finals.
2 days later, I decided to ask how he's feeling. Literally one minute after I texted him, he said he's been better but he's struggling with catching up with finals, and asked about me. I said same way, and he didn't respond back.

We didn't talk for 15 days. I even had a dance recital 1 week ago - he didn't show up, nor text me. Over break he told me he was going to, even wanted to make me a poster...
A part of me feels as though he's distancing away from me b/c he lost feelings. Another part of me thinks I'm over-thinking - he did disappear from all of social media. But Monday was the last day for finals, and he did say on Twitter that he's done.

So I texted him today saying Merry Christmas. He said it back, and then said he's sorry he's been distant, he has a lot on his mind (once again). I hadn't texted him back - I literally saw the message one hour ago (it's 1:17am). But now I'm 70% sure he lost feelings for me, and I can't stop crying. What should I say to him tomorrow?

[H]

So...he comes to you asking you out. You say no....but you go out with him anyway. Basically, he knows that whatever you say, you don't really mean it.

Do either of you know how to talk to each other? I mean really talk, in person, face to face...about all of this.

You're both playing games and it's ridiculous. This can all be solved by you two TALKING in person!

It also sounds like you both have some drama. I would suggest you go seperate ways and actually mean it this time.

Stop crying. You have no reason to do so and you have NO CLUE what he means, what he feels, nothing! You're just reading into things and reacting with drama.

[Michael]

youza creep

[Aimee]

Hon, you're over thinking and stressing out about this WAY too much. This isn't what love is supposed to be about. You have to just let him go. He isn't worth your time if he's making you feel this way. It's just not good. For help of how to move on and other relationship advice, I would highly suggest that you visit this website =) http://www.lovepanky.com/ This has helped me plenty of times when I needed Best of luck!