Ex boyfriend over me or rebounding?

[Enaytee]

We weren't together that long, a few months but we were meeting up for around three months before we got together. It was great but he's kind of lazy and it just caused problems so we broke up in January. We are both hardly ever in relationships. His last relationship before me was eight months before we got together. When we ended it we kept talking. We met up and had SO much fun together and he kissed me and held me and told me he still liked me. Then he ignored my texts for days so I gave up and text him some stuff I probably shouldn't have said. But it was the truth. I guess I was a little pushy, I didn't mean to be I was just tired of it all and wanted to know what was going on. It hurt me because I wanted him I had invested six months into this guy I wanted it to work. I'm the type of person who doesn't like giving up and allowing things to fail I guess. We got along well so why wouldn't I want us to work? And now he's in an open relationship A WEEK later?! Why would he do this? Is he just rebounding? How could you be over somebody so quick?

I blocked his number and Facebook once I had shouted at him and he gave no response. I knew that sometimes he would forget to respond because when he is smoking weed he kind of forgets. So I blocked. I only have him on Snapchat now and I send mass pictures but he never talks now. It's been a week since we spoke. I sound clingy I know but it's been so many mixed signals and now suddenly this happened! It's not like we constantly argued, if we weren't happy with each other we would tell each other and resolve it. We were never off/on this is our first break up ever and it would have been easily resolved so I don't really get it.

I am eighteen and he is 21 if that helps by the way.

[me]

Sounds like he's over you. But don't worry, he's probably just using this new chick anyways.

Stop being clingy and don't contact him again. When he hits you up in the future I'd ignore him

[Kayl]

Sounds like he's over you but you're not over him. Otherwise you wouldn't be so crazy about it.