Am I an introvert/anti-social or just strange?

[Privateuser999]

I honestly like meeting new people, but often I don't like introducing myself unless I feel like I really need to. I like being approached rather than approaching... I have a few close friends but only really close friends know how I actually am because I'm usually hard to open up unless someone is blunt. I can say that I am open to being open (if that makes any sense) but only if someone is willing to open me... lol... But like I said, only my close friends know how I actually am because I've realized I'm harder to open up to new people... It's not like I act like two different people, I just am more shy around new people because I find it intimidating...

Anywho, I find this really strange... (Some background info is that I am kind of attracted to this guy) We talked over a social media site about stuff, and in person. Mostly about serious topics so it wasn't small talk or casual talk... The next time I saw him, we'd talk about other deep stuff. However, that was in a small group. When he's alone or with one close friend (who's also pretty attractive), I don't even say hi. I don't acknowledge him at all, and vice versa (I'm sure it's because I'm REALLY not acknowledging him). Anyhow, does this make me anti-social or just weird? Or idk? HELP

[Chris]

It doesn't make you any of the above. Sounds like you're just nervous. It's good to be cautious about who you open up to.

[Only Ramble]

Isn't being multidimensional thought to be an advantageous thing?

Go for both the anti AND thestrange.

Maybe you could have a sordid affair with yure auntie and kil* two birds with one stone...

Glad to have been able to help you out.

[Darkphoenix1]

Sounds introverted a bit, but introverts are not considered to be weird, they are just reserved and observant than others. It's good that you are okay about being open, seems like if you become outgoing a little bit it can do wonders.

Maybe you are a bit jealous of that guy and you don't know it, or it could be that he is different than the other guy. Either way, it's kind of essential to open up to people these days even a little, as it can do wonders to your life. Being shy is okay, but not too much. Having many friends (not like 20/30) will make you confident.