My guy friend dumped me? Advice?

[Vola]

Me and my grade school guy friend caught up on Facebook. We have spoken at least every other day. He has a girlfriend which it seems my guy friend is not INLOVE with her but I respected their relationship. I text my guy friend today, and he replied " I am ignoring you because I am causing him problems and how he can't continue are friendship?" how am I causing you problems when I just met you it sounds like its a lack of trust and lot insecurity in this relationship. The problem isn't me. I just wanted him as friend. Advice? Am I wrong?

[Schuyler]

Sounds like a bad case of jealousy with the girlfriend. Just avoid him for a while, he will break up with her soon, she will drive him away.

[Common Sense]

His love interest is having problems with you. Only because he said that problems were happening is a good enough reason to back the heck off. He need not explain himself again and you need to respect his wishes. So, take a step backwards and do not contact him even one more time. He made his choice. Accept it.

[Diana]

Sounds like the girlfriend has issues with you. If you do inappropriate things with your guy friends, or things she's uncomfortable with, then you should definitely stop, but if you're just really good friends, and don't even have physical contact with each other, then she's just insecure. Maybe she's jealous of your guys relationship and closeness. In any case, you probably did nothing wrong and she's just over-reacting. I don't think you should stop hanging out or talking to him unless he straight up tells you to leave him alone. It's really up to your friend to sort things out, especially if he still wants to be friends with you.

[Cat Lover]

Whether your friend is IN LOVE with his girlfriend or not, is absolutely none of your business! You were taking to him at least every other day, and maybe she doesn't like it and thinks you are trying to get too close to him. She maybe doesn't realize that you just want him for a friend.

You aren't wrong for wanting to talk to him, but if you haven't seen each other for a long time, every other day is a little too much. Maybe you just came on too strong. His relationship and whether there is lack of trust or insecurity is again, none of your business! It is for him to deal with as he pleases, and he would rather preserve the relationship with his girlfriend than a friendship with you.

So if you are smart, you will back off and text or call him one more time and tell him you understand, and if he ever changes his mind, he knows how to find you. Then leave him alone! You ARE a problem to him right now. Sorry.