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- percolaTED - 11-09-2012 09:17 AM
guess you can, after all !
- Smilingcherries325 - 11-09-2012 09:17 AM
Techinically, it is rape.... you could file a report but idk if you would want to considering you did have sex with him later that night. But its all up to you... it was rape but i guess if your okay with it then dont worry about it
- john - 11-09-2012 09:17 AM
I'm sorry but I have to agree with trollen on this one and the fact that you also did him again later that night hurts your case as well.....this case wpuld probably never hold up in court especially without any evidence or you calling the police so either way there is nothing you can do to pursue this case without looking stupid or foolish
- xxx000au - 11-09-2012 09:17 AM
Yes in the eyes of the law he sexually assaulted you on a couple of grounds.
You said you cant and you were under the influence of alcohol.
Although in respect to alcohol he could say the same about you. You took advantage of him as he was not able to give consent.
Trouble is, his solicitor will argue that you chose to meet him and his friend and you said yes to the game and you were not dragged to the toilet and you did not scream when he was doing it and you remained there and later had sex with him.
I think a court will find it hard to believe that you said no in the toilet yet did not complain to your friend or ask to leave or call the cops, instead you remained with him and consented to sex. He will say you did not say "I cant" or any other NO.
It would also seen strange that you were drunk when this happened in the toilet yet you choose to remained with him for many hours until you were sober and able to give consent so you did and had sex with him.
Yes report it but don't be surprised if ti fall on its face. You never know maybe he will slip up and admit you at first said no. I would not count on this as clearly these two guys are on the ball.
- Flubbety Yu - 11-09-2012 09:17 AM
i can't do this is not NO
had you said No it would have been rape
but in this case its just a case of you not being assertive enough.