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Why won't this girl respond to my Facebook messages? - Primo - 03-24-2014 11:43 AM
I go to the same school with this girl. I've known her for a year and had a crush on here between summer break and during the school year. I used to message her a lot like everyday and say "Hi" and she would respond but for some reason I sent like two messages during the past few months (around November) saying "Hi" but she wouldn't respond. I checked the message the other day but it said she saw it some time ago but just didn't respond. The funny thing is she responds when I talk to her in real life just not on Facebook. Why?
- Elle - 03-24-2014 11:49 AM
Try again. Sometimes when you message someone and they don't see it for a while they think they shouldn't bother replying. If you get her when she is definitely online or talk to her about it in person. Maybe organise a time to talk online. Hope you get her soon
good luck.
- Sara - 03-24-2014 11:58 AM
Maybe she forgot that you had written her? If your talking to her in person at all then who cares about facebook responses?
- Lili - 03-24-2014 12:00 PM
We don't know her, so we can't tell you.
The next time you are talking to her in person, ask her if you did something wrong by messaging her on Facebook. Would she like you not to communicate with her that way?
- Schuyler - 03-24-2014 12:08 PM
Only one way to find out, Ace. Ask her in person.
- Bent Snowman - 03-24-2014 12:15 PM
"The funny thing is she responds when I talk to her in real life just not on Facebook" How is that funny? You cannot ignore somebody in real life.
Next time, say more than just "hi."
- Pearl L - 03-24-2014 12:23 PM
maybe shes not checking her messages
- Mushu - 03-24-2014 12:30 PM
If she sees you and communicates with you in person, perhaps she doesn't feel it's necessary to talk to you through social media.
- jhtydf5768 - 03-24-2014 12:35 PM
If you two are not friends, it can be tiring to take the time to sit down and have a directionless, forced out of politeness, uninteresting conversation with an acquaintence. I am speaking as a girl, from experience. She probably is aware that you have a crush on her since you just message her with nothing in particular to talk about.
Take the other persons advice, when you talk to her be interesting right off the bat. You can even ask her what her opinion is on things like certain teachers or assignments, this will make her feel like her opinion is valued and you two think similarly.