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Should I ignore her? - 263 - 05-05-2014 07:47 AM
I feel literally used. I'm always willing to fucki*g help her, I write compositions on Facebook when she gets desperate (because of her exams). And what I get is her chatting with a couple of friend she hated. But that makes her feel good she says, because people are accepting her. Oh sure, who cares...I just want her to respect me the way I do. For example...last time I went over to her house and she spent most of the time looking at the screen on facebook. That was offensive, we used to speak more and now she is little by little pushing me away. Once I spoke about it with her and she told me not to get jealous over it. It was completely misunderstood. I feel like I'm receiving WAY less than I'm giving. Suggestions? I feel bad & lonely .
- Patricia - 05-05-2014 07:51 AM
yes. since shes ignoring you, than maybe you can start too. she notices and starts to miss you more. she'll soon realize she loves you.
- Shizuka - 05-05-2014 07:58 AM
I should say 'talk to her about it' but you already did that, so yeah you could ignore her for maybe a week or just a few days. If she needs you, she'll come back to you and apologize, don't worry!
Also, could you answer mine please? https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140407140554AAbpvwi
Oh and don't ever feel lonely because someone, there are other people who probably deserve you better. c:
- Russell - 05-05-2014 08:10 AM
Drop her like a bad habit. You sound like a victim of the "Nice Guy Syndrome"...and it's deadly. People sense it and use you to serve their purposes. I would delete her phone number and unfriend her on facebook.
I know it sounds harsh, but you can't live your life with people thinking you're a doormat and you have to start somewhere.
Good Luck
- Eli - 05-05-2014 08:26 AM
Its a girl, they are all the fu***** same, screw her, find someone else, you will be glad