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I thought there was something between us, but he won't add me on fb!? - 050 - 06-09-2014 12:48 AM
I met this guy at work recently. He's only visiting for the summer and is leaving in a week or so. We've spent a lot of time together at work though. I took a liking to him right away. We joke around a lot. Sometimes we're sassy toward each other but most of the time we're flirty (for instance he's portugese and I'm Mexican and he calls me "querida" which basically has the same meaning in Spanish and Portugese.)
He added everyone from work to his fb friend's list - except for me. I requested him three days ago and he hasn't responded. He definitely knows it's me because of my name (plus all the common friends we have). If he's not interested in me like I thought, that's fine. Not accepting my friend request makes me feel kind of bad though...I at least thought we could be good acquaintances if nothing else.
Am I overreacting or looking into it too much?
Why do you think he added everyone except me?
- mYsterY1995 - 06-09-2014 12:49 AM
He might be playing hard to get or he might have just not checked his fb yet. be patient and see what happens. Good Luck!
- tambam - 06-09-2014 01:03 AM
You are overeacting, fb is nothing compared to I'd he talks to you face to face. He may not have logged in fb or checked is friend request. Simply ask him to add you.
- R0k3rk1d - 06-09-2014 01:13 AM
PEOPLE!!! QUIT LIVING YOUR LIVES BASED ON F*CKING FACEBOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Nicole - 06-09-2014 01:24 AM
I think you need to wait a little bit longer maybe he hasn't been on lately. The one thing you mentioned is that you guys flirt around and tease. Maybe you could throw a little joke out there (being silly) and say I didn't want to be your friend on fb anyway. Or how ever you want to put it. The one thing keep in mind, does he maybe have a girlfriend back home and doesn't want you to see?