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Should I let my 14 year old daughter have a boyfriend? - john - 11-09-2012 09:49 AM
Okay, so my 14 year old daughter has a lot of friends and school is quite popular. However, out of her group she is more of the shy girls. Recently, i found out that she had told one of her friends that she has a crush on the boy, and being sneaky i looked him up on facebook only to notice in his family bar his dad is actually my boss! I want my daughter to be happy because shes now told me that she really likes him and they've sneakily kissed up in her room and stuff, but its the fact it's my bosses son.
- Bella - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
Speak to your daughter about it and ask her if she definitely likes him and if he is right for he. If yes then leave her and speak to your boss. Have a quiet word with him and see what he thinks
- Jessica - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
If you have to consult Yahoo! Answers on letting your 14 year old daughter date, I think you have more issues at hand than just her being interested in your bosses son.
If you relationship with your Boss is decent, talk to him about it. Explain that your daughter is showing an interest in his son, then you know... TALK ABOUT IT LIKE ADULTS, instead of asking questions on a Forum known to be filled with stupid answers.
- ? - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
yes they already kissed
- McMike - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
They're kissing at 14 secretly in upstairs? How much longer until that boy gets in her panties? Sorry I'm just being straightforward with you and honest here. Sex is next on the list and if you're naive enough to think that it won't happen to your daughter (and let's not over look her getting pregnant either) or that things like that just don't happen to your family then I'd say you're in for a rude awakening.
You decide. If a 14 year old is already making out alone upstairs NOT going to have sex and risk all the repercussions that follow after?
The fact that it's your boss's son is totally irrelevant. Your daughter well-being exceeds any job or individual with any power over you. Think about that too. You know what to do.
- dload - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
It's probably best you support your daughter decision to date... even if it's only puppy dog love.
If you ban it, this can cause more issues. She may hate you for it, and probably still do it behind your back anyways, which could lead to more problems. Won't be as open about it and can't ask questions or seek help if it does get out of hand.
Rather than attempting to prevent your daughter from growing up (I know that must be hard), you should be supporting and ensuring it's done in a safe way.
- lloyd - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
It is your daughters choice, but just make sure your boss knows about it, he should be ok about it if you and your boss have a pleasant relationship.
- Eje xx - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
You really need to ask your self questions do you trust your daughter? and do you trust the person she wants to date?
i would say give her a chance and as soon as you see something suspicious or not right or something you don't like just tell her and talk to her like adults she obviously wants to go through with this right now so let her experiment and let her see whats out there to come because eventually she will date and she will know nothing about dating and will be embarrassed or she will be a natural and im not saying she will but she might blame you for that
but it is still your choice but also check with your boss make palliate conversation on your daughter then change to his son
hope this helps x !
- My Name Is Vane - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
LOL
She's 14. Let her have a bf. Im sure you liked boys when you were 14 o_O
EDIT
What I'm trying to say is if you raised her right, she won't do anything wrong
I , A 15 year old girl, had sex when I was 13. Nobody ever told me it was wrong or that I should wait.
I don't honestly regret it because the guy was very important to me and we loved each other while we were together for a year and a half. If you raised her like you want, she won't do anything she will regret.
I advise to maybe give her some birth control options tho..
- Menoly - 11-09-2012 09:58 AM
Of course,you sure dont want to upset your daughter about this.everything is fine as long as those two dont do funny things when in relationship.because thats happen to most of young and immature couple nowadays.