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My best friend since kindergarten doesn't want to be friends anymore:(? - Sparkles - 11-09-2012 12:07 PM
Ok so me and my friend have just entered middle school and I've started hanging out with the "emo" kids and they invited me to go to the library with them before school. When I told my friend about it she said I shouldn't because they will make me do drugs or other shit like that! I didn't listen to her, and now she messaged me on facebook saying that I have changed a lot and we are nothing alike and that we shouldn't be friends! I was heartbroken. We were friends since kindergarten and we told each other everything! Now I'm considered " emo" and my friend hates me
what should I do?
- Blayze - 11-09-2012 12:15 PM
well, it seems to me that your friends were the kind of middle schoolers who are the snobby stuck up popular bitches. if you like the "emo" kids, then hang out with them. do you really need friends that are willing to abandon you because you hang out with another crowd?
- MineCraftGeek - 11-09-2012 12:15 PM
i dont agree with answer one
i think your friendship is hardly over... yes if you want to hang out with the emo kids than do that, but clearly dont do drugs and sh!t... tell your friend that this is not worth losing a frinedship over. you probably have changed, but i think if you can have a convo with her and be open about it and tell her you can hang with who you want all will be well. be honest with her. If she doesnt see that, her heart isnt in the frinedship anyway. I hope all works out
this worked for me fyi i had a very similar problem and now we are closer frineds than before.
- Mia - 11-09-2012 12:15 PM
Well if she is really your friend, she'll get over it.
If she doesn't, just forget about it. A good friend doesn't do that to her friend.
She'll probably get over it soon. But you should talk to her. Remember to stay calm, and don't start saying things you will regret later!
When people say, "You've changed," you haven't, you just stopped living life their way