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So I'm depressed about being single! :(? - MEXCANGIRL - 11-09-2012 12:57 PM
i'm so lonely and it hurts so bad sometimes not having that special person there anymore. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last year during the summer and he's already moved on and i get jealous when i see pictures of his new girlfriend on Facebook .Im happy for him and everything that he's with someone that makes him happy but at the same time i still have feelings for him and i get jealous .No cute guys seem to approach me only the ugly ones. All my friends have boyfriends and it sucks being the single one in the group. I don't know what to do anymore. I cry myself every night listening to depressing songs and pray to god to make someone attractive / great personality fall for me .But it never works i hate seeing people at my school holding hands and kissing and everything i feel such a loser for being single .I just want to be in a relationship so bad so the person could understand me and love me for who i am .I feel so neglected .My parents never gave me attention when i was younger .My own mother calls me a loser cause i have social anxiety disorder and im bipolar .I feel like i won't find anyone ever cause how people are these days and i know its not the end of the world for that but i feel like i wot find anyone perfect for me .Im not attention sneeker maybe i am ..What do u think i should do ?btw im not ugly i get compliments from people saying im pretty and they like how i do my makeup etc.Im 16 by the way
- ILove2Puck - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
Are you serious? I'm 29 and single. Shut up.
- Lil - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
OK. A couple of things:
Your mother is incompetent at being a mother and you need to stop listening to what she says.
You're OK being single. You need to work on being happy within yourself before you will be able to find a meaningful relationship. Unfortunately, that may have to wait until you can get away from your mother and the douchbags at your school. It is what it is.
You're 16. It does get better.
- lotusflwr - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
Focus on school, trust me if you were in a relationship and you broke up.. you would be even more depressed.
Don't worry about what other people think.
Cheer up.
They're other people who are like 50 yrs old and single...
they're sleeping well.
- Ansorr - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
hey this is the 21st century, you dont have to wait for the guys to come to you anymore.
social anxiety sucks. been there done that. im better now, though, and if you work on it you can be too. your mom sucks for telling you that you are a loser. you are not a loser. unless you lose things all the time that is. then you are literally a loser. but otherwise you are not, because life is not a game with winners and losers, all that crap is just an illusion.
just try to be happy, and if having a new boyfriend will make you happy, then get a new boyfriend.
- screechingframe902 - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
I honestly wouldn't worry about it too much. When your single it almost seems like EVERYONE is taken... I would know. If you don't think about it for a while you will notice people who have nothing wrong with them and are single. You aren't alone. Try to stay occupied for a little and you will start to see the dating world more available to you. Hope I helped...
- Sammie - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
I thought i felt the same way until i saw my best friend making out with her "boyfriend". after that i was like "Um no thanks. Ill pass."
I know how yu feel. I'm in love with someone who may never know i exist.
- just being me!!! - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
You're 16 years old. You are too young to worry about being single forever. You have a lot of different things ahead of you. Focus on what's important like graduating high school and making something of yourself. If someone special appears along the way, then awesome. Good for you. Calm down though. Also, you shouldn't have to doll yourself up all the time or worry about "being pretty" either because that's not the point of a relationship. You want someone who likes you for who you are and not what you look like. If you think that you'll stay with a guy forever based on looks, then you have a lot to think about and you're not mature enough for a relationship anyway. Lasting relationships are about the two of you and how you make each other feel.
You are worrying way too much about this at 16. Just be happy and worry about making yourself happy first! Everything will work out as it should
- Princess Me :) - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
Babe i know exactly what you feel! and im going through the same thing!!
its OK to be single! it really is. im single and im 18. ive been through what your going through and i can promiss you one thing, you cannot force love! you cannot force someone to love you, or for you to love them either! its something that just happens when you least expect it most.
i've been told this so many times its crazyy and i dont blame you if your probably reading this now saying that its all bull sh*t and all because i said the exact same thing! but ive learned to accept the fact that its actually true. and when i look back now i realize that all the times i did ahve someone who loved me it was never forced and always came when i least expected it
stop trying to look for love! it will find you
in the meantime, you need to do things that you love and that make you happy! once you are happy and you understand that you need to be happy and content with yourself before someone can enter your life better things will come to you! and i promiss that!!!
im sure you are a beautiful girl, dont listen to your mother! you are not a looser!!!
goodluck with everything cutie! i promiss things wil get better once you learn to accept everything ive stated
message me if theres every anythig you want to talk about! <3
- Shopaholic-4EVER - 11-09-2012 01:05 PM
Aww, don't feel or think that way. i have been through the same thing, i does suck not having someone. But your friends should always be there. i recently got out of a complicated relationship like a week ago. we were supposed to be on the friends term but i guess that isn't want he wants, because i thought if we were friends he would want be back. so i just slowly let go of him and moved on. i am super outgoing and don't care much what people think of me. so when im out somewhere and i see a cute guy i approach them of do something stupid and say oh sorry and start a conversation.
Don't feel lonely, you have friends, and family who are always there for you. And you should just go hangout with friends and if you happen to see a guy who you think is cute go up to him. Guys aren't the only thing in the world although i do understand where you are coming from. Honestly i would just let time pass and let someone come to you. but don't feel depressed over a guy, hang out with someone, or do something to keep your mind off guys. if you need anything you can find me on here and ill be glad to help