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Would you be mad if you found this on your boyfriends computer? - qtpie - 11-09-2012 04:30 PM
My boyfriend let me use his computer to check my email the other day and left his facebook open. I'm not one to pry and I trust him but his ex-gf from college sent him a message while I was sitting there that said "tell your girlfriend that the only girl with a special place in your heart says hi!" meaning her. I quickly asked him about it and he got mad so I didn't bring it up again. Do I have a right to be mad or at least to an explanation?
- Marie - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
you deserve an explanation
- Larna - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
you tottaly have the right to an explanation and if you dont get one he obviously still has feelings for the ex and you should leave him straigt away
- alana - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
you definately have a right to an explination. if its really nothing he wouldn't get all mad about it he would just tell you what its about.
i would be curious cuz he was getting mad about everything.
you need to talk to him about it again. and yes you do have a right to be mada
- [bianca] - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
yeah you do!
grill him about it
and kick that girls ass and tell her to get over him
cos hes yours now
;]
- Mastercherry988 - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
If he doesn't explain then dump him. or you'll have some trouble later on.
- Stevie N - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
Yes, he should explain but if he doesn't then you need to get over it. If you pursue it you will only drive a wedge between you and that will push him toward his ex.
- Buggin Out - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
no, its clear what the situation is. she still likes him and shes jealous of you, but he's still with you, not her, so he's doing nothing wrong imo. he cant stop what other people write, unless you tell him to delete her.
- Jazzy Poo - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
You deserve and explanation, but wow, that sucks. If I were you, and I saw that on my boyfriends computer, ha, I'd be pissed...I don't think I would be as mad at him as I would be at her though. If she knows he has a girlfriend then she should just leave him alone.
- B Blanco - 11-09-2012 04:38 PM
Well technically the message was for you because it said "tell your girlfriend [she] says hi." That was a catty thing for her to say and even though you found it on his facebook, he should still explain it to you if he wants peace with you.
Do not feel guilty. He wouldn't be mad if there weren't something to hide.