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Why would ex girlfriend delete me as a friend on facebook? - MHL - 11-09-2012 09:17 PM
We date for 2 1/2 years. She broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. Said she wants to break up before things get worse and we end up hating each other. She wants to be friends. I've been begging her to come back to me through texting. Just noticed today she deleted me from Facebook 15 minutes after I uploaded some pictures of myself and friends from a party (they weren't crazy pictures or anything).
- cweaveee - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
girls can be like that about things, shes probably jealous and its her way of letting you know shes pissed off.
- quietpark173 - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Maybe she just doesn't want to talk to you anymore?
- KJ - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
She probably just said she wants to be friends to be nice. Most people know it's impossible to friends with an ex right after the breakup, especially when one is begging to get back together. She wants to move on and date other people and she can't do that when you're on her profile watching her every move.
- Don - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Don't beg. She's your ex for a reason. Leave her alone for a while. If she adds you again, take it slow, but don't beg.
LOL @ Nala-Jane...1-1/4 years? No thanks.
- katydint - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Maybe it's a coincidence that she did it right after your upload--she was probably thinking about it a while before going through with it.
Maybe she doesn't want to have you knowing who she's interested in . . . or who's interested in her.
Maybe she wants more privacy from you. Sometimes we're like that with our exes.
- jennifreee. - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
maybe she's still upset, & the best way she can think of coping is to have no contact with you. it's not fair to you, but i know quite a few girls who do it.
- Patrick - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Hey, MHL.
It's really hard to deal with heartache and pain like that. I've blocked my ex gf on msn for 2 weeks before i could talk to her again. Now she's unblocked but i don't talk to her anymore. I didn't remove her from facebook because i don't want to lose contact with her entirely, i just hid her from my news feed. When i just think about my ex i get really mad, because yes, i've done my best for her and she just broke up like that. Of course that makes me hate her. Talking to her makes me feel the love i still have for her but which i do not want to have.
Good luck man, i'm sorry for you..
Patrick.
- Logan - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Have you been texting her asking her to come back since you guys broke up? I'd say give her some time alone, she said she wants to be friends so she'd still like you to be a friend. Give her some space, if you see her around just say hi, don't pressure her into talking, she might not be ready to talk to you yet. Hope this helps..
- Nala-Jane - 11-09-2012 09:25 PM
Hmmm.... Gee I wonder? It may have to do with the fact that you and every other guy under 30 in the U.S. is a dumbass! I mean seriously! it's been less than a month and you're already out serching for a girl?! You dated for 2 1/2 years so you must wait 1 1/4 years until you can date again.
p.s.: you're an asshole