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Should I give my girlfriend my Facebook password? - Daniel Anderson - 11-09-2012 11:36 PM
My girlfriend of one month thinks it's absolutely okay for her to know my password for my Facebook page. She said since we're "committed" that it shouldn't be a problem for me.
I don't know about this. Do couples give out each other passwords nowadays?
- PEGGY S - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
If you have nothing to hide, it should not be a problem. If you split later, you can change it.
- Kathleen Germany - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
Is she going to give you all her password too ?
dose she also want to look through your phone ? .......sounds a bit controlling to me
- Andy - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
I never would, wouldn't be asking for hers either.
- Lilypad - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
No, well none of my friends who are in relationships give their passwords, and i have never done that when i was in relationships. Seriously, everyone deserves privacy, and if she doesn't trust you then you need to tell her to grow up and stop acting like she's 12 (but in a nice way, because how i said it sounds mean)
- Josette Ruthven - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
If you have nothing to hide then give it to her.however I still think you should never share your password with anyone
- Lancebob - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
1) You should if you feel like it, if you don't feel like it then don't give it to her.
2) Some couple give their password to each other to see what the other is doing. It's sorta controlling and spying.
- Arnold - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
theres no way in hell thau ur gonna do that bro. Its been just a month. If its a page then u can make her an adminstrator of the page. Well if its about your profile dont tell her d password. If she forces u then exchange passwords with her. If she refuses to give u then u too dont give yours. Listen to my words and u wont regret. I hope this wud be the best answer.
- Laura - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
me and my bf do this not to check up on each other but so we can prank each other x its fun
so yes if you have nothing 2 hide"!! and be sure to have hers 2 !
( i think facebook can cause dumb problems if used in the wrong way)
this could also cause problems and arguments so think long and hard!
- Autumn - 11-09-2012 11:45 PM
Hmmm....the fact that she feels she has to ask for it is worrisome. In a relationship, the first thing that holds you together is trust. If she wants a password to a site that you use to communicate with people, it means that she feels the need to see what you are saying in your hidden messages that the public isn't able to view.
This is the first sign of something that will just continue on and get worse. Eventually you will look around one day and see you have no female friends anymore as well, or many guy friends for that matter. You won't talk to your family as much, and most of your day will be scheduled around her schedule.
This is ultimately a sign that she feels she isn't worth much in a relationship, and a sign that she feels she isn't good enough to keep you around. This is something that you have to really talk to her about. She may say that you should if you have nothing to hide, but in my opinion, she shouldn't want it if she thought you had nothing to hide.
I would bring up the concerns to her, and explain the reason you are uncomfortable with it. If she gets really upset, then maybe she isn't in the place emotionally to be in a stable relationship. Both sides of a couple should be able to respect that the other doesn't like going through something.