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Is it wrong to be in a relationship with someone but not adding them to your Facebook status? - Buttrefly-Beauty - 11-09-2012 11:54 PM
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a couple of months now, but we are still just "in a relationship" on Facebook. He said he doesn't like putting his relationship matters on Facebook and he wont even let me write anything sweet on his wall. This is the first time i have ever change my relationship status on facebook and I like to specify who it's with.
- Sandra Dee - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
I can understand if he didn't want his relationship status changed but if he wont even let u write anything sweet on his wall, it sounds to me like he has something to hide (or someone)
- trader1867 - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
who cares what FB says --- its how you feel for each other that counts ---- so personally who cares whats on FB ???
- ~Miss Scorpio~ - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
Yah thats weird that he won't let you write on his wall, I'd be worried about him cheating.
- lisa - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
No. Personally I leave my Facebook status on single, even when I'm dating someone. I do this because whenever I broke up with someone, I found it especially painful to announce it to the entire world via Facebook, having to field condolences...and then whenever I started dating someone and it was all new, it felt almost like I was jinxing myself when I changed my status. I agree with him; leave Facebook out of your relationship. It's great for causing unnecessary drama. Your five hundred best friends do not need to know who you are dating.
- Drue - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
I find that incredibly stupid not to do so. Seriously you can't even right anything sweet on his wall. He's not flipping famous tell him to hit a dose of reality that no one cares if you're going out or writing sweet things. Unless of course if he's two timing you then someone indeed would. Boys are just ridiculous today. I want one guy to try that with me..heck I would out single and dumb him.
- Chow P - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
Time to either break up or have a serious talk with him. You two are definitely not on the same page.
- Emma - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
I get not changing relationship status, but the wall things kinda weird
- Tony Parisi - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
i beat the shit out of my dad today
- quietpark269 - 11-10-2012 12:03 AM
Some people are just more reserved, and like to keep it private. Like for me, I have a ton of different people on FB, and they don't really need to know what my boyfriend's name is. If he just doesn't like to mention it at all, well that's fine too. Also, depending on your ages, his parents might be like mine and be overly protective or not allow dating. I know if I ever put something about my relationship on there (which I don't), then my family would want to know everything, because I'm the baby
Anyways, this is turning into a life story of me, so I'll conclude: yes, it's fine. You don't need facebook to tell the world who you're with, it doesn't define you.