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The mother of a guy i like passed away, what should I do? - C-Swag - 11-10-2012 12:01 AM
so i like a guy and his mom recently passed away.
he hasnt been coming to school lately and if he does, its only for about 2 days out of the week.
i heard from his friends that his mom died and i want to cheer him up.
i see him at school & i have him as a friend on facebook.
we hardly ever talk.
what should i say to him?
- (: - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
Wow. Thats hard.
I'd ask him if he wants to get out of the house and do something.
It'd be good for him.
- shadow - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
Get him a sympathy card. Write something sweet in it that will make him smile. Tell him if he needs to talk you'll be there to listen, but let him know if he needs his space, that's ok too. Just be a good friend.
- Cookie Monster. - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
Comfort him and cheer him up,
hangout with him
lots of hugs! <3
- Chewyy G - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
Maybe you can call him if you have his numbers or maybe when in school and talk to him when he was alone. Say something like are you feeling okay because i heard you mum just... and give him words of encouragements to cheer him up. A thank you from him i think will be unforgettable for you.
- Fibio the Torturer - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
say to him you are sorry about his mum...but you have to realize his mum died, i dnt think he would be happy and cheery if you tried to cheer him up. he needs time to grieve, give it time. support him
- Audi - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
say to him: how r u feeling try and get him to open up to you
- b a g o n g - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
cheer him... give a moral support and always smile... that's the point
- PEACE ON EARTH - 11-10-2012 12:10 AM
Just tell him how sorry you are about his mother and tell him that if ever wants to talk about her or about his feelings about her death, that you will be there for him.
Don't push him, though, because people grieve in their own way.
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